[amampathak]

I'm a 17 year old boy studying in Standard XII (High School)...
I'm Cool,nice and quite Outgoing kind of guy.. I get along with everyone very fast... and I

Make friends easily -
Recently I've started going to coaching classes (Well I'm Good in studies too :p) and I

Like a girl there... I just Love her from the first day I saw her... and She's the most

Unique girl I've ever seen in my lifetime till now.
.. Reasons - 1) She Never had a Boyfriend till now... Same as me
2) She never EVER talks to any boy in the class... and I mean NEVER EVER -

Not even an eye contact... she just ignores boys (But She Straight :P )
3) I asked her friend about her and she told my that my Angel HATES Boys -

She isn't interested in any relationships... She just doesn't want any boy even as her

Friend (Quite odd)
4) She's fine with girls - She laughs,enjoys and She's Brilliant in studies

Too...
5) She really really Beautiful , Smart and I love her Smile... She noticed me

Once looking at her but didn't care... I've just stared at her... and I talk to her friends

Very freely - only she remains silent... Can't really get the Perfect Time...
6) One of my friend told me that when she joined classes last year - every

Boy fantasized about her - every boy tried to propose her but nobody could even talk to

Her... and This year I'm the only one pursuing her (I'm just 2 months old in

Classes)... She rejected everybody...

Now The PRoblem is that She's always surrounded by her 3-4 female friends... She

Doesn't hang out (So she's a type of "Come late-go early" girl who just attends the

Lectures)... Now my friends tell me to go and talk to her... but It feels so awkward as

She never talks to any boy and She's always with her friends... What should I say? What

Should I do? I love her so much so I don't want to leave her .I want to get to know her more... and I'm sure She'll love

Me when she'll get to know me...
... Please Help me ? I need Your help...

[Cat1864]

This probably isn't what you want to hear, but you should leave her alone. She seems to be very clear through her actions and interactions that she doesn't want to talk to males.

Trying to insert yourself into her life will not make her like you. It would probably cause the opposite effect.

Learn to control yourself instead of wanting to control her (it is controlling behavior if you try to make contact that she doesn't want.) Stop staring. Stop talking to her friends about her. If you like them as friends then be friendly, but do not do so just to get close to her. Go about your own life.

Everyone is unique in some way. Look around you and you may notice other females just as attractive and unique as she is who are trying to get your attention.

Understand that if she truly 'hates males', she may have a reason. Don't reinforce her belief by your own actions. By not being like the others who pursued her, you would be setting yourself apart and showing her that you are unique, too. It might draw her out more than going up to her would.

Good luck and may you do well in your classes.