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    777888666 Posts: 9, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 28, 2012, 04:22 PM
    Thanks 4 understanding as you know how is our culture and our family supports husbands like that.I tried to talk to my brother before so he talked to my husband and he pleased my brother and convinced him that your sister has
    No problems here she is only going
    Through harmonal changes... At that
    Time my brother did not take any step
    As if he don't want to feel embarrassed
    In front of the society that I got
    Divorce again... I also got weak and
    Did not listen to what I am going
    Through although I started working
    More harder by thinking that one day
    I will make this relationship work out
    And
    See my dad and mom happy that
    Finally there is sm1 to tk care of me
    And a father for my son,I wanted to
    Talk to my father about him but he
    Passed away before few months and
    My mom and her decisions were
    Depended on my father and now on
    My brother... She stays very sad and
    I can't hurt her more... and even I tell
    Her she can't help me intstead she will
    Get scared and will scare me as well
    So its better to know all about what to do and how to do by myself and react
    And I am working on it and soon
    Inshallah I will be out of his claws...
    I would like to mention that as my
    Mother is depressed and close to my
    Delivery date I have asked my
    Husband to call her here so that she
    Can help me so he said OK let the time
    Come... as he loves to show off he
    Has begin telling people that I am calling
    My mother and law only for my wifeshappiness but still no work out. May
    Be because of my mom he will let me
    Go out along with my mom and than I
    Would be able to fly away from his
    House... he is always mostly at home... He runs a restaurant and he has staff to take care and when ever he wants to go he takes me with him and makes me sit there for nothing... smtimes the staff says leave her at home she seems sick and tired... just want to say that I will take a step soon
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    #22

    Aug 28, 2012, 04:27 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by 777888666 View Post
    he is always mostly at home... He runs a restaurant and he has staff to take care and when ever he wants to go he takes me with him and makes me sit there for nothing ....smtimes the staff says leave her at home she seems sick and tired....just want to say that i will take a step soon

    You have no time alone, you can't find help, he is always with you - but he runs a restaurant. You appear to be home alone right now.

    If your brother is more concerned about his reputation than your safety there is little left to say.

    It has all been said.

    I hope your children aren't injured while you are deciding what to do next.
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    Aug 28, 2012, 04:55 PM
    He is snoring and kids are sleeping and I am watching TV wd I phone... Plzz don't ask hw I do... Its only I am doing because I want to do... I was more stronger after my first divorce I stood up for my son and worked hard to provide the best and at that time I had my fathers support... This time I am lacking knowledge only and without any knowledge a person is weak and not confident... This time I am going to talk to the doctor as well... Before I use to think that may be the doctor will tell him everything or he will say its harmonal changes... Coz my husband keeps on saying this to the doctor and trust me smtimes its
    Difficult to understand their accent...
    He is so friendly and a loving husband
    In front of the doctor.. so this scares
    Me that no one would trust me ever...
    Now I will call my doctor by any means and request him to see him in private and tell him all about him... Last time when I bleeded so he said sorry and he will behave than took me to the gp and told them that because of long flight she is bleeding at that
    Time I was not registered but now I am and GP has referred me to the hospital where I will have my baby... so I will talk... He use to tell me that the doctor at GP is his friend but when I met I didn't feel that... Thanks a lot for your genuine concern and I will not let is go waste... I am not weak...

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