[Judy1983]

I keep having dreams where I see my husband wanting to be with someone else no sexual contact just wanting to leave me becaue he likes them. In real life we are always together except when he goes to work but he never leaves early or gets home late we don't have any friends and if I don't go he don't go and visversa can someone help me cause I am feeling terrible:( cause of this dreams I keep having.

[joypulv]

Dreams are your brain's way of sorting out the day, that's all. They mean what they mean to YOU. Are you worried that he is going to be interested in another woman? Do you think you should both have friends? I do. Marriage goes stale really fast if you don't have friends. Maybe that's what is behind your dreams - deep down you know this.

Having friends together is nice for shared memories and things to talk about. Having friends separately is good to fill in the gaps of what each of you needs that your spouse may not have - women like to talk about many things that men get bored by very fast, and vice versa. Many couples even go on vacations with friends of their own gender, especially after years of marriage.