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    phoenix91 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 6, 2012, 12:01 AM
    Should I keep talking to him?
    So I've been seeing this guy for about 6 months and at first we were going on dates and texting often. We were also sexually active. Well I noticed that after a while we never talked on the phone, and the texts came less often. Also we stopped going anywhere together and it was hard to see each other. I asked him if it felt like we were in a relationship, and he said yeah but he didn't want it to be official. He was saying that he and his ex were arguing even though they stopped recently, and that she's been trying to get back with him. I'm starting to wonder if I was being played and if I should continue being friends with him or not... please help I'm so confused and I need some advice.
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    Aug 6, 2012, 07:46 AM
    Leave him alone.
    Anytime someone is having sex with and then tells you we are in an unofficial relationship, you don't have a relationship. You are a booty call.
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    Aug 6, 2012, 09:21 AM
    I would say goodbye to him. Because he is using you...
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    Aug 8, 2012, 01:03 AM
    Get the hell out of dodge. If after 6 months he's not willing to call you his girlfriend then he either has commitment issues or is just using you for the company and the sex. It's not a good indicator of your future together.

    Uggghh and the ex is still in the picture. Good riddance. You deserve to be with someone that can give you 100% and is proud to have you as his girlfriend.
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    Aug 8, 2012, 02:06 PM
    Leave him alone because he still has feelings for his ex. He should have never gotten in a relationship if he knew that. Its only going to hurt u in the end
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    Aug 8, 2012, 04:25 PM
    I agree I would let him go. Not sure your age but you should never settle for someone he doesn't want to be "official". That is basically saying hey can we have sex with no strings attached. Let him go
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