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mexican1 · Aug 1, 2012, 06:27 PM

My boyfriend who is now my ex, tried to rape my best friend and threatened her not to tell me. Should I forgive him, or should I move on, knowing I love him a lot. He was always nice, and he never liked her. Was it cause I never got to see him? I don't know what to do anymore. I'm confused.

Gamed · Aug 1, 2012, 06:44 PM

My anger towards this question burns like 1000 suns.

You are the biggest low life to live if you just go ''Hey its OK I can look past the whole rape thing''

But why didn't she just get him put in jail if he tried to rape her. Hello attempted rape charge?
So I can't help but get the feeling that your stories a little fishy.

If this was genuine than... Your pathetic for letting your friend get violated and than asking ''should I forgive him'' Why aren't you at the police station this second?

My recommendation is you get help before someone attempts to rape your child ,and you say ''Should I forgive them''?

mexican1 · Aug 1, 2012, 06:51 PM

Well I know I'm not going to forgive him but she didn't tell me rite away I don't even know when it happened she doesn't even have proof that he tried to rape her

C0bra_M3nace · Aug 1, 2012, 07:29 PM

Originally Posted by mexican1

well i know im not gonna forgive him but she didnt tell me rite away i dont even know when it happened she doesnt even have proof that he tried to rape her

Valid point, without proof the whole situation is hearsay. However, Gamed does also have an excellent point. Why do you need strangers to tell you to get over this idiot? Of course you shouldn't forgive him, any logical human being wouldn't.

Gamed · Aug 1, 2012, 07:51 PM

Originally Posted by mexican1

well i know im not gonna forgive him but she didnt tell me rite away i dont even know when it happened she doesnt even have proof that he tried to rape her

WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU
You just said he threatened her not to tell and you say ''well she didn't tell me rite away.''

And ''well I know I'm not going to forgive him'' but you ask in your question if you should forgive him?

Let me look beyond that though.
Ok so from your description of him being nice etc. It really adds on to her just saying this.
Ask her for proof the cloths she was supposedly attempted to be raped in they should be ripped or have prints depending on how long ago this happened. Ask her when this happened than ask him were he was that night and who he was with. Get all info possible were she was almost raped. You would be surprised if he so much as touched a doorway their should be prints and he had to put up a fight to try to rape her so their should be something their.

Show up unannounced

C0bra_M3nace · Aug 1, 2012, 07:57 PM

Originally Posted by Gamed

WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU
You just said he threatened her not to tell and you say ''well she didnt tell me rite away.''

And ''well i know im not going to forgive him'' but you ask in your question if you should forgive him?

Let me look beyond that though.
Ok so from your description of him being nice etc. It really adds on to her just saying this.
Ask her for proof the cloths she was supposedly attempted to be raped in they should be ripped or have prints depending on how long ago this happened. Ask her when this happened than ask him were he was that night and who he was with. Get all info possible were she was almost raped. You would be suprised if he so much as touched a doorway their should be prints and he had to put up a fight to try to rape her so their should be something their.

Show up unannounced

Depending on how long ago it was, retrieving any sort of evidence could be near impossible. Besides, fingerprints will not show on clothing, well it would depend on the type of fabric and fignerprints alone will not be sufficient enough evidence to provide a case for attempted rape.

Although, I know the authorities don't take these cases lightly, a victims statement might even be enough to press charges.

That point is very unlogical to even point out, because the OP is not the victim.

girlygrrl · Aug 1, 2012, 08:01 PM

Wow... Are you serious? Even if you never got to see him, that's no reason to try to rape your friend who he didn't even like! You don't need a guy like that in your life...

Fr_Chuck · Aug 1, 2012, 08:17 PM

Yes, my anger at why someone would even have a second though and question this.
But then, we have others on here that try to justify their boyfriend who are sex offenders or pedophiles and so on. So I guess letting him rape a few friends is not a big deal.

odinn7 · Aug 1, 2012, 08:25 PM

This question can't be real, can it? I mean, I read this and ask myself how someone could be confused as to whether they should forgive someone that tried to rape someone.

On the other hand, Fr_Chuck makes an excellent point (as usual) about the people that try to justify sex offenders and pedophiles... so I guess it could be real.

Assuming this is a real question... NO, of course you don't forgive a sack of crap like that. Why would you even ask that? That is just plain ridiculous.

I mean, Golly, it's not like he actually did rape her, he only tried... is that what you're thinking? This is just crazy.

goodnesspink · Aug 2, 2012, 04:37 AM

I know how you feel, my bestfried said he tried it on with her but she tragged it on until 1 month and a half to tell me, and has no proof and when it happened she did not mention it to him and say what the hell just happened !

mexican1 · Aug 2, 2012, 08:06 PM

Originally Posted by girlygrrl

Wow... Are you serious? Even if you never got to see him, that's no reason to try to rape your friend who he didn't even like! You don't need a guy like that in your life...

I know I don't need him I haven't not once even thought about his I rather believe my bestfrannd who I've know for almost 4 years then a guy I've know for like half a year

talaniman · Aug 2, 2012, 08:17 PM

Should I forgive him, or should I move on, knowing I love him a lot.

Move on, immediately.

mexican1 · Aug 2, 2012, 11:06 PM

Thanks that's really helpful

girlygrrl · Aug 5, 2012, 07:05 AM

Gud :) all the best to you :)

Originally Posted by mexican1

i know i dont need him i havent not once even thought bout his i rather believe my bestfrannd who ive know for almost 4 years then a guy ive know for like half a year

clareAD2000 · Aug 5, 2012, 11:48 AM

Your crazy thinking about seeing him again... but everyone who has posted before me is right
Are you really serious with this question? If you are I would be at a police station trying to get him arested

randommustaches · Aug 5, 2012, 10:17 PM

Well it seem as if many people are being harsh about this question. But can you blame them? Seeing as how there is no proof I would just forget about this guy. Weather he did it or not you should let him go and loose all contact with him. And if your best friend happens. To be lying then you need to forget her too. This is a bad situation so I'm sure its difficult but I would believe my friend unless you have evidence.