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rayybanz22 · Aug 3, 2012, 11:28 AM

This story is really long... I'll try and make it short
So like I had two bestfriends I'll just call them A&B...
So my friend A was on Facebook and she met a guy and she then really liked him so she told me and B about him... she add him to a private group we had on FB then... he send me a friend request... we started talking on FB... so me and the guy became really good friends but I had no idea he liked me thought he was being friendly anyway my friend A stopped talking to me at first I didn't understand why but later on I realized that he wasn't talking to her that much anymore... so I was talking on with the guy on the phone and my friend B then she was talking about how we should get together and stuff and she knew that her friend liked the guy... anyway I kind off started liking him and we talked often then we eventually got together. So my friend A we were no longer friends but friend B was still my friends. Anyway I know I was wrong for going out with the dude she liked but she was to quick to judge anything and he told her he didn't like her... but I'm still wrong... then after a while we are together my friend B I started feeling weird around her... and she was more closer to A and then I started hearing that she likes my boyfriend and stuff at first I didn't believe that because she would tell me we were bestfriends then my boyfriend starts telling me she's flirting with him and asking him to hang out behind my back... then she starts telling me that's he is flirting with her and that he almost kissed her and stuff... I was angry but I was trying to understand because I didn't want to lose her as a friend... but it got more serious and so I stopped talking to her because I couldn't believe she was actually flirting with him and she actually liked him. Then it became a serious issue when our form teacher knew about everything and he told me I should break up with my boyfriend if I want to save my friendship so I thought about it and I decided to to save my friendship... so I did for my friendship... I didn't want... but I had to. So he didn't take that well and two weeks later he and B were together... I angry cause I broke up with him for our friendship and everything was going OK until I found out... and I stopped talking to them... Then he completely stop talking to me and he said stuff about... I was rally hurt because I still liked him. After awhile apologized to me about why he wasn't talking to me and started telling me had problem in their relationship and stuff, I tried being nice and helped him with what ever because I still liked him a lot but I hated her for what she did... I still do reallly like him and I tried to get over him for the pass six months but still nt working... Help I need advice

Homegirl 50 · Aug 3, 2012, 04:07 PM

You do realize the boy had a say and played a role in this. He was messing with you girls knowing you are friends. And you did basically the same thing to friend A, so what are you upset about. He will probably leave all of you alone and hook up with someone else and in the meantime you have lost your friends. Leave the boy alone.

rayybanz22 · Aug 5, 2012, 07:12 PM

Originally Posted by Homegirl 50

You do realize the boy had a say and played a role in this. He was messing with you girls knowing you are friends. And you did basically the same thing to friend A, so what are you upset about. He will probably leave all of you alone and hook up with someone else and in the meantime you have lost your friends. Leave the boy alone.

Thanks for the help