[kali4niakat]

He always has excuses why we can't or don't have sex. But often masturbates. I cry and tell him I need him . He goes in the bedroom and masterbates then always denies it

[Wondergirl]

Are you constantly after him to have sex? Stop asking and don't say a word about it for two weeks. And no scolding of or mention about him masturbating -- like, it isn't a factor in your life.

Meanwhile, be conversational about your job or your family or your various activities -- be interesting and fun! Start right now, and we will reassess this in two weeks. Remember, no mention of sex AT ALL.

[C0bra_M3nace]

That's actually a great idea Wondergirl!

A lot of people get bored of things quickly, even sex. After a while, it can feel like a chore or just another thing that needs to get done today. I think Wondergirls's tactic could work wonders! Seems to me like you need to find that fire again. Have you tried new things? Toys, outfits, new positions? Maybe he's simply bored.

[Wondergirl]

And if all he hears from her is a constant whine of wanting sex, he turns her off and even becomes defiant about it, turning immediately to masturbation as a "So there! I don't need you."