[ramyakumari]

My name is Ramya. I am 30 years old. My sister is 5 years older than me. She had married before 15 years ago. She has no child. Doctor confirmed that she can't be carry a child. They suffered a lot without having a child. I am not interested in marriage although my family compelled for my marriage. But I refused it.

Two years ago, one day my sister came to me and cried a lot for not having child. She asked me to give birth a child for her husband. First I refused her. After that she came daily and cried lot. My family also suggests me to do that for my sister since you are not going to marry, then why you can't carry a child for your beloved sister. Then I agreed to carry a child only through artificial insemination. We consulted a doctor. She checked my body and I am good condition for artificial insemination. But the cost of charge she told in lakhs. We are middle class family we can't pay that amount. We have also consulted two three doctors but the result is same.

My sister started weeping. This time she becomes very serious since she has a faith having a child by me and it suddenly broken. She was affected mentally and physically. I feel pity of my sister. I can't able see the condition of my sister. So I accepted to my sister to carry a child for her husband by having sex with her husband. I thought for one day only we have to sex with him. But the condition is different. The doctor told that you can't be pregnant by one day. At least you have to sex for one month. I have sex with my brother in law for one month. After that I have become pregnant. After 1 year I gave birth to a female child. I have been in my sister's house for this 1 year to feed the child.

But 5 months before my sister husband came one night and asked me for sex. I also allowed him because I also started loving him since we have lived husband and wife. Now only I understand about marriage. My sister husband told my condition to my sister and she told to my family members. All consulted and told me let you marry my sister husband. My sister also accepted since she had done a sin to me. I also in a mind to accept this. I know I can't be a legal wife. But since we are sister there will be no problem with us. What do I have to do?

[joypulv]

What country do you live in?
What religion do you all belong to, if any?
What sin did your sister commit?
Is there any chance you can all live together discreetly, without the whole community knowing about any of this, just two sisters living with her husband?

[ramyakumari]

I am from india. Our religion is hindu. I\

[joypulv]

Hi Ramyakumari - are you willing to live together without divorce and re-marriage?

[ramyakumari]

You.. my family members also saying like that. We can have good cooperation as we are sisters. There will be no legal problem for property as my sister have no child.

[semiramis78]

She is Hindu not Muslim. Overall is a crazy situation! I can't understand it ever!!
How can you sleep with a man who sleep with your sister as well?