[ilike2bike11]

Basically this is how my story goes she goes to my church first time I saw here was when she was at my youth group which was my freshman year of high school I will be a senior in high school she will be a freshman in college and she has a boyfriend who in which did not tell me and guess how I found out I was on a fall retreat with her and I was sitting alone and talked to one of my friends about it says she's got a boyfriend now and I was like no way and another friend comes over and says its true and I was like dang it come on and now this year months later in may of 2012 I get a message from here boyfriend on having feelings for her and he told me back off with the feelings towards her and now I and her are so so friends we used to be so close now we are not anymore and her boyfriend is a cool guy and I have only told 5 people this story and they said move on from it which I am trying to and now what should I do from this can I have help please

[Homegirl 50]

You back off. Leave her alone. Stop talking about her to people.

[ilike2bike11]

Also one more thing while her boyfriend was not with her she was flirting with me

[Homegirl 50]

Another reason to leave her alone. She appears to think there there is noting wrong with flirting with you while she has a boyfriend, and then her boy friend tells you to back off. That is unnecessary drama. Leave it alone.

[ilike2bike11]

Have you ever been in a situation like this before

[Homegirl 50]

When I was a teen I was in a similar situation. When I found out there was a girl friend in the picture, I was done.
I'm not fond of guys who flirt when they know that have a woman at home.

[odinn7]

First, if you would learn to use punctuation, you wouldn't have one long and hard to understand sentence. I had to read this twice to try to get sense out of it.

Leave her alone and forget about her. You're wasting your time and setting yourself up for problems.