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    Jul 20, 2012, 10:33 PM
    How rude!
    Behind my back saying I am look like a EVIL !
    What does even mean?
    I don't know why they are being rude !
    I don't know how to deal with those kind of people.
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    Jul 20, 2012, 10:56 PM
    You deal with mean remarks by trying to let them roll off your back, ignoring them, letting it go, figuring that the person is in some sort of pain and it makes them lash out.

    Of course that's the high road and easy for me to say. In truth, we all deal with this to some extent and we nurse our wounds, tell a best friend about it, and go on.
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    Jul 20, 2012, 10:57 PM
    You don't deal with them, you ignore them.
    If you get upset every time someone has something rude to say you will be a very unhappy person.
    Sticks and stones...
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    Jul 21, 2012, 01:13 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by LadySam View Post
    You don't deal with them, you ignore them.
    If you get upset every time someone has something rude to say you will be a very unhappy person.
    Sticks and stones.......

    Is somebody from one of your other threads saying these things about you?
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    Jul 21, 2012, 05:38 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Is somebody from one of your other threads saying these things about you?
    Not to my knowledge, just a general statement.
    Something I should know?

    Edit: After some thought- IF I'm getting your drift, in one thread yes perhaps.
    I suppose I was perceived rude. If I'm not getting the drift then I'm confused right now.
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    Jul 22, 2012, 05:57 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by LadySam View Post
    Not to my knowledge, just a general statement.
    Something I should know?

    Edit: After some thought- IF I'm getting your drift, in one thread yes perhaps.
    I suppose I was perceived rude. If I'm not getting the drift then I'm confused right now.

    If I had a clue why I quoted you instead of the OP I'd post it - but I have no idea! No, I wasn't addressing you. My mistake -

    Here's some background - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/...g-685284.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-f...e-685208.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/...me-682571.html
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    Jul 22, 2012, 06:30 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    If I had a clue why I quoted you instead of the OP I'd post it - but I have no idea! No, I wasn't addressing you. My mistake -

    Here's some background - https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/...g-685284.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/other-f...e-685208.html; https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating/...me-682571.html
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    Thanks for the clarification, I was completely baffled. If I knew how to post that little puzzled smiley I would, this is the only I know :)
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