[Sreenita]

Hi ,

My age is 28 years I am feeling very lonely now a days. I feel no body is there for me except my parents.. its not that I didn't had any good friends ,but as time passed everybody left me . I tried to contact them as well but all became busy in their life.. I think I am very poor in making frienship or in maintaing them.. And now since I am feeling very lonely I am trying to make myself involved in my work.. I became too much workaholic day and night and even weekends also I am working . But now getting bored with work and same monotonous life.. no friends no happieness.. I don't know what should I do? Please advise

[Atinob]

I have a daughter your age and experiences the same feelings. Growing up you always think friends will always be there for you but most you never see. Maybe you could hang out at the library or downtown area if you live near a big city check listings about things going on in town try to be more visible and around people it will suck at first but chances are someone else is feeling the same way you do and you might make a friend. If you live near a nursing home you could volunteer once a month or week sometimes it gives you someone to talk to and you feel better when you make someone happy

[chiradeep]

Dear Sreenita!
You seem to be from India. If yes, then I would say India is a place where you can entertain yourself in many ways.
Tell me what are your hobbies?
What do you love to do in your leisure time?
Where do you work, I mean your profession?
What about marriage as you are already 28?
What does your parents do?
I need to know the answers of all the above questions before I can suggest you something about your loneliness.
For the time being I can suggest you that you visit a orphanage or old age home and be with the kids or people, talk to them, help them, play with them. That would make them happy and you will also be happy and avoid loneliness.
Be in conversation with me with the answers so that I can suggest you more.
Thanks for sharing...

[jcwjenn1]

Wow I'm the same as you. Only difference is I have not start working all the time. I work at senior living place an it makes me depress so many people don't have anyone to vist them an they lost most of there mind or body is badly deformed. I just receive my nurse licences.
Can ask you question being workaholic does help you with not being lonely.
I live at home my dad is verbally abusive an always finding a away to put me down. And my ex boyfriend gave me genital herpes. Im 26 yrs old black women who like white an Hispanic . My life is over .

[koko2014]

First of all, I am so sprry to read you're feeling so bad. Perhaps you may need medication to take the edge off your bad feelings and to seek out counseling. It is also necessary to develop a relationship with God Jehovah. I also feel blue a lot. I feel ugly and I think my skin color is too dark. When I lighten my skin I feel better about myself but I know that this way of thinking and being is whack. I realize that I should see and embrace the skin God gave me. Hopefully one day I will get to that place but for now I bleach because it makes me look and feel better. I also force myself to be more social which I know is very hard when you are depressed. My rock right now is in the hope and faith in the lord Jesus Christ

Get in ths habit of doing things that make you happy. Nurture yourself with good nutritious food and exercise. Be kind and nice to others. Offer your help to others. Pray and ask God Jehovah (almighty God) fod deliverance and direction for your life. Read the holy bible and do what it says. God bless you little sis. Bye