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    Jul 12, 2012, 07:28 AM
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    My boyfriend says he never watched porn or masturbated while we were broken up but now that we are back together he will masturbate several times a day and watch porn. We have sex 3-5 times a week. I'm not sure how I should feel about this. Should I be alarmed that he does this?
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    Jul 12, 2012, 08:53 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by vecham View Post
    My boyfriend says he never watched porn or masturbated while we were broken up but now that we are back together he will masturbate several times a day and watch porn. We have sex 3-5 times a week. I'm not sure how I should feel about this. Should I be alarmed that he does this?
    How old are you both? He was doing it before and just didn't admit it.
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    Jul 12, 2012, 09:24 AM
    I am 27.He is 29. We have been together 11 years on and off. He says that he never had the urge to masturbate or watch porn during our most recent break. I mainly kind of find it weird that he didn't while we were separated and wonder why he does it so much now.
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    Jul 12, 2012, 09:39 AM
    I think he sensed that was the answer you wanted to hear.
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    Jul 12, 2012, 11:27 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    I think he sensed that was the answer you wanted to hear.
    I didn't ask him about his masturbationhe just told me. And I have mixed feelings about the fact that he masturbates now that he gets regular sex and didn't when he wasn't having sex regularly.
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    Jul 13, 2012, 08:26 AM
    I think he is just trying to spare your emotions. Trying to impress upon you that without you he has no desire. I think is a ill-thought out attempt to flatter you.
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    Jul 13, 2012, 07:14 PM
    I agree with everyone else. You shouldn't have mixed feelings about him masturbating. It's normal. It's human. Don't stress or make a big deal about it...
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