[jennifer0992]

I don't really get this... ive come to accept it but really... it makes no sense when it comes down to it... im a very beautiful pretty sweet kind nice girl... im more like a fantasy or something... im almost like the perfect girlfriend.. monogamous caring kind... supportive understanding... yet I can't meet a guy? I'm in my 30's now and its gotten ridiculous... how can someone be single for so long AND be this amazingly beautiful girl who is kind and wonderful? Its as if men look at me... and instead of doing the 'norm' wanting to ask me out or be with me... they just shun me or treat me badly or do nothing. Many men torture me for fun... ive never met a girl just get ABSUED by any man period. I've been told by some people it's jealousy, and even an ex who said to me that he was jealous of me and he terrorized me sadist style... very evil person.. but everyone seems ot want to abuse/torture me and it is ONLY this extreme. Many men get off on rejecting me mistreating me... treating me as if I'm inferior... its really bad... im highly intelligent very normal nice cool... but its like I get SHAT on by everyone... so extremely its hard to fathom how one person can get absued so badly for no reason... I suffer so much its crazy... im a virgin and can't get a boyfriend?? Where are the guys who want to be with a young skinny hot girl? Aren't there TONS of men who want that? I can't seem to get that... its so weird... its as if my status is INFERIOR to all that... thsi is how males treat me... I don't know what to do anymore... NO guy will date me.. and the ones who do are FREAKS with severe issues who really are closet gays or weirdos... no guy wants to be with me and I'm single 34 and have been single ALL my life?? I've NEVER had a relationship at all? But I've looked for one for 15 years now? Yet every ugly mean person or any person can meet someone just not me?

[jennifer0992]

Also I'm the kind of girl who has the kind of beauty that when men see you they would instantly fall in love... just really gorgeous and really kind too... however.. oddly enough.. no one falls ni love with me! The opposite happens.. men treat me lower than crap... they treat me like trash and put me down insult me demean me-- it's so bizarre... imagine men treating pamela anderson elizabeth taylor like dirt rather than wanting to be with them--this is how men treat me and I'm at the level of pretty of actresses like that... I've never had even ONE boyfriend and no man wants anything to do with me-- if anything men RUN AWAY from me... they are terrified of me and treat me like a freak... they avoid me like I'm a freak and run to any female and love her... im thinking there has to be ONE male on planet earth who wants to be with a really pretty nice girl?? To a man it would be like a sexual draem or something... I once had a guy online tell me "your picture is the prettiest picture ive EVER seen of a girl...the guy that gets with you will be in heaven or something".. I said the guy that HAD me tortured me refused sex with me.. this is how all men treat me... can someone explain why?

[Homegirl 50]

You asked a similar question in another thread. Perhaps you did not like the answer you got.
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/person...ou-669374.html

You seem to have a very low opinion of people and a high one of yourself. Perhaps people sense this. Maybe you treat them as if you are better than them.
Where are you meeting these men who torture you and treat you so poorly? Maybe you are attracted to the wrong type of guy. There are plenty of good men out there and certainly ones who would not do such things to any woman.

[J_9]

I'm wondering if you intimidate men. You see, most men don't care for women who are vocal about their beauty like you are. Maybe it's your attitude.

[J_9]

At 34 years of age, and a virgin, maybe it's time to look within yourself and see if there is something that may put people off.