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    mangored88 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 2, 2012, 08:31 AM
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    My child's father got out of prison back in April and we decided to pick up where we left off. Just recently we had a dispute about him not wanting me to be in the presence of men. So I told him fine, only cause I was trying to respect his feelings. Being funny, I said to him, well I think you should give me the same respect and not be around other women. Not expecting the response I got, this man said to me, oh its different with him cause he can protect himself when it comes to women but says he has to protect me against men. I feel that is an excuse so he can do what he wants. He broke up with me because I told him I would not be disrespectful to him and that I deserve my respect as well and I wouldn't be a dummy and subject myself to that kind of disrespect at all. I love him with all my heart but he doesn't like to compromise but wants you to compromise with him and make him happy and I won't live like that. We haven't talked in 3 days. What can I do?
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    Jul 2, 2012, 08:35 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by mangored88 View Post
    My child's father got out of prison back in April and we decided to pick up where we left off. Just recently we had a dispute about him not wanting me to be in the presence of men. So i told him fine, only cause i was trying to respect his feelings. Being funny, i said to him, well i think u should give me the same respect and not be around other women. Not expecting the response i got, this man said to me, oh its different with him cause he can protect himself when it comes to women but says he has to protect me against men. I feel that is an excuse so he can do what he wants. He broke up with me because i told him i would not be disrespectful to him and that i deserve my respect as well and i wouldn't be a dummy and subject myself to that kind of disrespect at all. I love him with all my heart but he doesn't like to compromise but wants u to compromise with him and make him happy and i wont live like that. We haven't talked in 3 days. What can i do?
    Move on... unless you enjoy being controlled like an object rather than a person. This isn't Afghanistan after all.
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