[betho95]

Hey, I am 16 I have a suicidal boyfriend who is also my age. I want to leave him because I don’t love him anymore. He is taking away my happiness. He wants to see me all the time no matter if I’m free or not. I just want some space. He is putting a hell of a lot of pressure on me. He says I’m the only thing/person who’s keeping him alive.

I can’t deal with it any more. I cry myself to sleep most nights. He kisses and cuddles me all the time. It’s making me really claustrophobic. I have to tell him what I’m doing and where I’m going all the time, otherwise he has a go at me and starts crying. I have to see him, I have no choice. He says that I have to see him in person to help him, but I have my own life.

I’m just so worried about him and what he will do if I leave. He’s controlling me. I’m scared that he will kill himself if I do leave, it will haunt me all my life if he does. I’m still with him because I care about him but there’s no love for him. I don’t know what to do anymore. He has adhd and something else but I can’t remember what it is.

[talaniman]

This is not something you should deal with by yourself. Your parents, a teacher or school counselor can help you through this and give you the aid and support you need. Not your friends, but experienced responsible adults.

He needs help and may be on meds, but a wise adult is the help you need.

[Fr_Chuck]

Tell his parents all of this and leave him, it will be his parents duty.

Next if someone does harm theirself, is not your fault, it is their fault