[claire1210]

Me and this guy have hung out like three times with another girl and guy who are going out. The last time we hung out we hooked up. We exchanged numbers and he asked what I was doing the next day. Then he calls and tells me the condom ripped. He's 16 and I'm 15 and he has an older sister so she took him to get me plan b (my mom would have KILLED me if I asked for it.) I paid him back for half and that was the last time I talked to him. I really like him and I'm not sure if I should ask him to hang out but I'm afraid he's probably freaked out. Its been like a week. Should I ask him to hang out or just forget about it?

[claire1210]

Just got my period and found out I'm not pregnant by the way! He knows...

[bonita82]

I would forget about this guy. I mean you just got great news that you are (not pregnant) did you even learn anything like how lucky you are to know you aren't going to be a mom having a baby at 15 is hard. But it maybe to early to tell if you are pregnant have you had a period since you have had sex with him?

[rocketman11]

I strongly advise to save sex for someone special when you're older. But if you feel that you have to have sex because it's the social norm, and that you feel you need sex to feel wanted and loved, ensure that:
1) he ALWAYS wears a condom! And,
2) a condom of the right size! - pregnancies caused when wearing a condom usually always occur after splitting or leakage; this is due to condom size issues. Condom too long/wide = leakage and or splitting.

You have so much to look forward to in life, why have an unwanted child as a result of a few minutes of fun?

Also use a pregnancy test to make doubly sure you are not pregnant.

[talaniman]

Glad you are not pregnant, THIS TIME, but hooking up for casual sex with this fellow will only lead to the same worries as last time.