[Billy10101]

Me and my ex broke up on March 20th or something. Not long ago. And we had been dating for 2 years, we called it quits because we are in a long distance relationship. And it was to hard. We broke up on the Sunday and by the following week, she had a new guy, who I think liked her before the break up! He lives at least 160 miles away from her! So the distance thing was not a problem. We were so in love, so I thought, and I did not think she would have done this to me. She knows just how much I loved her, I don't want her back.. I don't want her to feel any pain that I feel.. I just want her to know, what she did to me was wrong!

I have lost my appetite and every time I eat I am sick. Its been this way for about a week and a half. I can't even force myself to eat because I just feel so sick, I am sleeping but when I am sleeping I am dreaming of her and this new guy!

She doesn't speak to me anymore she texted me saying she can't speak to me and she is sorry that she hurt me.. But the thing was, she didn't even tell me she was involved with this guy! I found out myself a day later and all she said was sorry :( So I have not texted her or called her at all for about 6 days. I deleted her number.

I want to know, will she miss me? Will her and this guys relationship last? They have been together a week today! I don't know what to think. Can someone please just give me there thought into this? Please, I just want to know if she will miss me and ask to come back? And will this relationship work?

I won't ever take her back, I'm so upset and angry, And I am not missing her. I'm just so pissed that she would do something like this to me, someone that I would have gave the world to her. I was even transferring university's for her! I want to tell her how she hurt me and does not deserve to have me back. Please help guys, Sorry if I have dragged on a bit, my head is a little confused. Sorry if I sound like an *** hole to =\ I'm just so mad and upset.

Thanks for reading

[talaniman]

She did nothing wrong, her feelings just changed. Happens all the time. Of course this was a shock, and many feelings are going through you now, and more will later, but they all will fade once they have run there course. Not only are relationships hard to maintain, no matter the intense feelings, but distance is a killer for anyone.

Break ups suck, but we survive them to move on if we accept it, and get busy with what's important to our lives. See this as a life lesson on how to manage your feelings when bad things happen in your life.

Keep leaving her alone, and get some strenuous exercise going to vent that anger, and promote the appetite.

[iandavidson1986]

I've been in this same scenario...

She came back, 5 years later.

Never give up the hope that she will come back. I had moved on, but it was all still there when we saw each other again.

Good luck!

[mmresd]

Go no contact and move on, there is no point on waiting for someone who has moved on or is trying to move on. Instead of wasting all your time and energy in false hope, you need to continue with your life.