Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    Laylabay's Avatar
    Laylabay Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Jun 16, 2012, 08:06 PM
    Problems with mom
    Why do I have to live here I can't stand my mom.she always in to stuff.I have two brothers one is older and one is younger and they love to fight they always beating do me.I can't do anything because I'm the only girl and l don't know how to fight. I will tell that person I have to call mom but she don't care. Do why do I have to live here?
    Wondergirl's Avatar
    Wondergirl Posts: 39,354, Reputation: 5431
    Jobs & Parenting Expert
    		  
    #2

    Jun 16, 2012, 08:08 PM
    I'm guessing you are 12. You live there because that is your home and your family. Your mother is the one who used to diaper you and has always fed you. Your dad has kept a roof over your head. How are you contributing positively to family life?
    Laylabay's Avatar
    Laylabay Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #3

    Jun 17, 2012, 08:31 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    I'm guessing you are 12. You live there because that is your home and your family. Your mother is the one who used to diaper you and has always fed you. Your dad has kept a roof over your head. How are you contributing positively to family life?
    Yeah I'm 11 but its not fair what do I do about my brothers they don't care what they do I love them but the way they act makes me think they don't love me
    Wondergirl's Avatar
    Wondergirl Posts: 39,354, Reputation: 5431
    Jobs & Parenting Expert
    		  
    #4

    Jun 17, 2012, 08:32 PM
    So what are you doing to help your mom and dad and keep the peace?
    Laylabay's Avatar
    Laylabay Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #5

    Jun 17, 2012, 08:44 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Wondergirl View Post
    So what are you doing to help your mom and dad and keep the peace?
    I just don't talk to them because they don't care. Today was was fathers right do I had to talk to my mom when needed do I did, but when she was around I whoudnt because she always make me mad. My mom and dad don't live together but they still together my dad lives they next town over. I always qsk my mom it I can live with him but she says no.
    bonita82's Avatar
    bonita82 Posts: 19, Reputation: 2
    New Member
    		  
    #6

    Jun 17, 2012, 08:58 PM
    Maybe suggest to your parents that you need family therapy or when school starts up after summer break go speak with a school counselor and get some help.
    JudyKayTee's Avatar
    JudyKayTee Posts: 46,503, Reputation: 4600
    Uber Member
    		  
    #7

    Jun 18, 2012, 07:53 AM
    Based on this - "I will tell that person I have to call mom" - I think you're the one with attitude. She is your mom, and you are rude and disrespectful.

    Maybe you can't live with your father because he doesn't want to put up with your behavior. I don't know.

    I think you are the one with issues. I agree with Bonita - speak to a counsellor, get help. Continue to act out and you'll find yourself in Juvenile Court or the foster care system. Then you won't have to call the woman who is raising you "Mom."

    This child needs counselling. I also question the spelling at age 11 - ?
    Laylabay's Avatar
    Laylabay Posts: 4, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #8

    Jun 18, 2012, 11:02 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Based on this - "I will tell that person I have to call mom" - I think you're the one with attitude. She is your mom, and you are rude and disrespectful.

    Maybe you can't live with your father because he doesn't want to put up with your behavior. I don't know.

    I think you are the one with issues. I agree with Bonita - speak to a counsellor, get help. Continue to act out and you'll find yourself in Juvenile Court or the foster care system. Then you won't have to call the woman who is
    raising you "Mom."
    Who are you to tell me why MY dad don't want me living with him. I think I know why your not me do please shhhhh
    JudyKayTee's Avatar
    JudyKayTee Posts: 46,503, Reputation: 4600
    Uber Member
    		  
    #9

    Jun 18, 2012, 11:49 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Laylabay View Post
    Who are you to tell me why MY dad don't want me liveing with him. I think I know why your not me do plz shhhhh

    Is English your first language?

    You posted on a public board. Expect to get honest ADULT opinions. I'm the person answering your question. That's who I am. You, on the other hand, are the 11-year old with attitude.

    So you tell me - why doesn't your father want you "liveing" with him? Presumably you know. You want to go. I would think your mother (and brothers) wouldn't be sad to wave good-bye to you. So why are you "liveing" with your mother?

    If you tell your mother and brothers to "plz shhhhh" I can see why they keep beating up on you.
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

Mom problems [ 4 Answers ]

Hi, My mom wants nothing to do with me, and she just strait out hates me. She always says how her job isn't to be a friend, or to even like me, but to control my life and to get me to become like her. She always screams at me for not getting good grades, which does anything but encourages me to...

Mom giving me problems with religion [ 11 Answers ]

Hey guys I have a problem, My mom has this religion she is very involved in and takes it really seriously. She would always pressure me to worship but I have decided this religion is not my way of life and I don't want to live by it. I've told her that, she told me she won't force me but she...

Mom problems [ 6 Answers ]

My mom will NEVER let me have a sleepover I am sooooooooo sick of it all my friends get to have one allll the time and my mom is so stupid and says no! I am 12 I should be aloud to have them but NOOOO she won't let me what should I do??

Mom and daughter problems. [ 7 Answers ]

Okay so here is the deal. My mom is a total brat sometimes. I know she is doing what she thinks is best and is trying to make my life better. But she is completely ruining my life, she is making it horrible. And when I try to talk to her about it she just gets mad and says ' I don't want to...

Problems with my mom [ 1 Answers ]

Hi my mom recently has been very rude and dissrespectful to me. I'm 16 17 in June and she lets me do nothing. When I got my report card she threw it at me. She doesn't encourage me in my paintball. And since I'm 16 and FULLY sponsored by karnage eclipse paintball supplies and 3 by the river I think...

View more questions Search