Why do I have to live here I can't stand my mom.she always in to stuff.I have two brothers one is older and one is younger and they love to fight they always beating do me.I can't do anything because I'm the only girl and l don't know how to fight. I will tell that person I have to call mom but she don't care. Do why do I have to live here?

I'm guessing you are 12. You live there because that is your home and your family. Your mother is the one who used to diaper you and has always fed you. Your dad has kept a roof over your head. How are you contributing positively to family life?

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Originally Posted by Wondergirl

I'm guessing you are 12. You live there because that is your home and your family. Your mother is the one who used to diaper you and has always fed you. Your dad has kept a roof over your head. How are you contributing positively to family life?

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Yeah I'm 11 but its not fair what do I do about my brothers they don't care what they do I love them but the way they act makes me think they don't love me

So what are you doing to help your mom and dad and keep the peace?

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So what are you doing to help your mom and dad and keep the peace?

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I just don't talk to them because they don't care. Today was was fathers right do I had to talk to my mom when needed do I did, but when she was around I whoudnt because she always make me mad. My mom and dad don't live together but they still together my dad lives they next town over. I always qsk my mom it I can live with him but she says no.

Maybe suggest to your parents that you need family therapy or when school starts up after summer break go speak with a school counselor and get some help.

Based on this - "I will tell that person I have to call mom" - I think you're the one with attitude. She is your mom, and you are rude and disrespectful.

Maybe you can't live with your father because he doesn't want to put up with your behavior. I don't know.

I think you are the one with issues. I agree with Bonita - speak to a counsellor, get help. Continue to act out and you'll find yourself in Juvenile Court or the foster care system. Then you won't have to call the woman who is raising you "Mom."

This child needs counselling. I also question the spelling at age 11 - ?

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Originally Posted by JudyKayTee

Based on this - "I will tell that person I have to call mom" - I think you're the one with attitude. She is your mom, and you are rude and disrespectful.

Maybe you can't live with your father because he doesn't want to put up with your behavior. I don't know.

I think you are the one with issues. I agree with Bonita - speak to a counsellor, get help. Continue to act out and you'll find yourself in Juvenile Court or the foster care system. Then you won't have to call the woman who is
raising you "Mom."

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Who are you to tell me why MY dad don't want me living with him. I think I know why your not me do please shhhhh

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Originally Posted by Laylabay

Who are you to tell me why MY dad don't want me liveing with him. I think I know why your not me do plz shhhhh

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Is English your first language?

You posted on a public board. Expect to get honest ADULT opinions. I'm the person answering your question. That's who I am. You, on the other hand, are the 11-year old with attitude.

So you tell me - why doesn't your father want you "liveing" with him? Presumably you know. You want to go. I would think your mother (and brothers) wouldn't be sad to wave good-bye to you. So why are you "liveing" with your mother?

If you tell your mother and brothers to "plz shhhhh" I can see why they keep beating up on you.