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    Jun 15, 2012, 04:03 PM
    Having a lot of symptoms -- am I pregnant?
    I am 15 years old,
    I had un-pretected sex around two to three weeks ago and I have been feeling sick for a number of days (around 5).my lower stomach is bloating,I have been getting really bad headaches recently and my muscles are acheing,am I pregnant?
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    Jun 15, 2012, 04:12 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by amelia129 View Post
    I am 15 years old,
    I had un-pretected sex around two to three weeks ago and i have been feeling sick for a number of days (around 5).my lower stomach is bloating,i have been getting really bad headaches recently and my muscles are acheing,am i pregnant?
    Probably... do you know who the father is... wait until your period is about a month late and take a HPT... all anyone is doing is guessing until then.
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    Jun 15, 2012, 04:18 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Probably....do you know who the father is....wait until your period is about a month late and take a HPT...all anyone is doing is guessing until then.
    Yes,the farther would be my ex-boyfriend if I am pregnant... I don't know what to do if I am,I haven't even told my parents I'm not a virgin...
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    Jun 15, 2012, 04:48 PM
    In order to diagnose pregnancy we need either your urine or your blood. Since we can't access those via the internet, it's going to be up to you to find out if you're pregnant. No one can tell you online.

    Is it possible? Very possible. You had sex, and it was unprotected, so you definitely increased the risks of pregnancy.

    Now you need to take a pregnancy test. If it's negative, wait until your next period is due. If you miss that one too, then test again. Use first morning urine, and follow the directions on the test exactly.

    Good luck.
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    Jun 15, 2012, 05:08 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by juliais1 View Post
    You could be getting ur period soon, thats why u feel sick, otherwise when ur straight on ur back feel ur lower tummy more towards the right if u feel pulse ur not preg if u dont u are, better off getting a preg test for wait for ur period, after sex ur period can be late.

    Would you please post your source for ALL of this information, from the pulse to the sex making a period late? Personal experience? Research?

    And again - please stop the text speak.
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    Jun 15, 2012, 05:17 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by amelia129 View Post
    Yes,the farther would be my ex-boyfriend if i am pregnant... I dont know what to do if i am,i havent even told my parents im not a virgin...
    First in order... PLEASE tell you parents. You need them now more than ever.
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    Jun 15, 2012, 05:23 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by juliais1 View Post
    You could be getting ur period soon, thats why u feel sick, otherwise when ur straight on ur back feel ur lower tummy more towards the right if u feel pulse ur not preg if u dont u are, better off getting a preg test for wait for ur period, after sex ur period can be late.
    Your information is 100% inaccurate. In fact, you couldn't be more wrong if you tried. Why not just tell the poster to consult a seer?

    We don't guess on this site. We post accurate information. If you can't provide that information, then stick to threads where you have something to offer. This isn't one of them.

    Also, it's you're, not your. It's pregnant, not pregnant. It's you, not u. Use real words, not chat speak. Chat speak is against the rules of this site. :(
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    Jun 15, 2012, 05:24 PM
    Brace yourself - I pretty much said the same thing and it got nasty: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...hy-669150.html

    Speaking of parents -
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    Jun 15, 2012, 05:29 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Brace yourself - I pretty much said the same thing and it got nasty: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/adult-...hy-669150.html

    Speaking of parents -
    I saw that. This is why I'm against children giving advice on adult forums. This is very obviously a child, and she/he shouldn't be posting advice about adult issues they obviously have no clue about.

    It disturbs me that she's giving sexual advice on the adult sexuality forum. The word "adult sexuality" says it all. If you're not an adult, then don't post.

    Hopefully the OP, even though she's only 15, has enough common sense to realize that we can't control what's posted on this site, and that some of the posts may not be accurate.

    I have reported the child. Hopefully her silly posts will be deleted, and if she continues her childish behavior she'll be removed from the site.

    Summer is upon us. :(
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    Jun 15, 2012, 05:30 PM
    Amelia, I realize you are considering an abortion without telling your parents. https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family...nt-671347.html

    The age and other info are posted on your other thread.

    I have got to ask - why would you have unprotected sex? What did you think would happen? I never, ever understand these questions.

    What was your boyfriend thinking?

    Did you parents talk to you about sex at all? Somebody obviously talked to you about abortions.
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    Jun 15, 2012, 05:36 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    It disturbs me that she's giving sexual advice on the adult sexuality forum. The word "adult sexuality" says it all. If you're not an adult, then don't post.(


    There should be a category called "Let's guess."

    We all know how I feel about children on AMHD, anyway. Waste of time for everyone involved.

    And, again, where are the parents?
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    Jun 15, 2012, 05:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    There should be a category called "Let's guess."

    We all know how I feel about children on AMHD, anyway. Waste of time for everyone involved.

    And, again, where are the parents?
    I agree.

    My daughter is 9. She knows as much about rabbits as I do. Doesn't mean that she should be posting on a site like AMHD.

    I know that if she did, she'd be well cared for by all of you. I have no qualms about allowing her to ask questions here. But, she's not allowed on the site because of the other children that post here. I don't want her getting misinformation. Sadly, I can't guarantee that she won't. It happens, especially this time of year. Summer... gotta love it. All the bored teens come to post their infinite wisdom! ;)

    Both of my children use the computer. I not only have child block, but I know exactly what sites my children are visiting. They need to ask before they're allowed to go on any site, and I have to say, they are very good about asking. If I say no, it's no. They're never alone on the computer.

    I too wonder where this child's parents are. Both of them actually. Not only the one giving bad advice, but the 15 year old that thinks she's pregnant.
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    Jun 15, 2012, 10:08 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by juliais1 View Post
    You could be getting ur period soon, thats why u feel sick, otherwise when ur straight on ur back feel ur lower tummy more towards the right if u feel pulse ur not preg if u dont u are, better off getting a preg test for wait for ur period, after sex ur period can be late.
    I'd like to know your sources for this so that I can my patients this over the phone when they call me. As a nurse I have never heard of such a thing.

    I'm sorry, but I missed where you got your medical education from?
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    Jun 16, 2012, 01:47 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by JudyKayTee View Post
    Amelia, I realize you are considering an abortion without telling your parents. https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/family...nt-671347.html

    The age and other info are posted on your other thread.

    I have got to ask - why would you have unprotected sex? What did you think would happen? I never, ever understand these questions.

    What was your boyfriend thinking?

    Did you parents talk to you about sex at all? Somebody obviously talked to you about abortions.
    If I am pregnant I am conciderion having an abortion,because I am too young and I don't want my parents to find out!I had un-pretected sex because we had no more condoms left,we used the withdraw method,I don't actually know if I am pregnant,but I have had some symptoms,and no they haven't yet
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    Jun 16, 2012, 01:54 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    I saw that. This is why I'm against children giving advice on adult forums. This is very obviously a child, and she/he shouldn't be posting advice about adult issues they obviously have no clue about.

    It disturbs me that she's giving sexual advice on the adult sexuality forum. The word "adult sexuality" says it all. If you're not an adult, then don't post.

    Hopefully the OP, even though she's only 15, has enough common sense to realize that we can't control what's posted on this site, and that some of the posts may not be accurate.

    I have reported the child. Hopefully her silly posts will be deleted, and if she continues her childish behavior she'll be removed from the site.

    Summer is upon us. :(
    I do have a clue about it,I just want to know if I am without getting a pregnancy test, I am not childish at all !all I am asking for is advice,so I think you need to turn around and ask yourself who's being childish (you)
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    Jun 16, 2012, 01:58 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Alty View Post
    I agree.

    My daughter is 9. She knows as much about rabbits as I do. Doesn't mean that she should be posting on a site like AMHD.

    I know that if she did, she'd be well cared for by all of you. I have no qualms about allowing her to ask questions here. But, she's not allowed on the site because of the other children that post here. I don't want her getting misinformation. Sadly, I can't guarantee that she won't. It happens, especially this time of year. Summer...gotta love it. All the bored teens come to post their infinite wisdom! ;)

    Both of my children use the computer. I not only have child block, but I know exactly what sites my children are visiting. They need to ask before they're allowed to go on any site, and I have to say, they are very good about asking. If I say no, it's no. They're never alone on the computer.

    I too wonder where this child's parents are. Both of them actually. Not only the one giving bad advice, but the 15 year old that thinks she's pregnant.
    I think you have got it wrong, my parents haven't gave me bad advice, in fact, they can't have because they haven't given me any, this is because they think they don't need to because they feel I am too young, they say around seventeen and eighteen should you be having sex.
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    Jun 16, 2012, 06:01 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by amelia129 View Post
    I do have a clue about it,i just want to know if i am without getting a pregnancy test, i am not childish at all !all i am asking for is advice,so i think you need to turn around and ask yourself whos being childish (you)

    Amelia, if you actually took the time to read Alty's post she IS NOT talking to you. She IS talking to the person who gave the very incorrect information.

    This is the very reason you are much too young to raise a child. You are so busy defending yourself that you don't even realize no one has said anything unkind to you. In fact, most of these posts are defending you!

    The person who didn't understand what she said and came back with her feathers ruffled to make a nasty comment is you.
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    Jun 16, 2012, 06:03 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by amelia129 View Post
    i think you have got it wrong, my parents havent gave me bad advice, in fact, they can't have because they havent given me any, this is because they think they dont need to because they feel i am too young, they say around seventeen and eighteen should you be having sex.

    Again, Amelia, NO ONE IS TALKING TO YOU. She is addressing me and the person who gave the wrong advice.

    But - your parents aren't talking to you about sex because they think you should be 17 or 18 so they'll get into the details then?
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    Jun 16, 2012, 06:41 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by amelia129 View Post
    ,i just want to know if i am without getting a pregnancy test,
    What other way do you think you could find out you are pregnant?
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    Jun 16, 2012, 07:44 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by J_9 View Post
    What other way do you think you could find out you are pregnant?

    Perhaps when the baby is born that will be a sign?

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