[cheetara]

So I've been datin my boy friend for three months now and I really care about him but he's a sex addict. He's never came out and said it but its pretty obvious. Wen we first got together I told him I was a virgin, he said that's not a problem and wouldn't pressure me. On top of that I was sexually assaulted a couple a years ago resulting in a lot of trust issue and intimate issues. Everything was fine for a while, now he always asks for sex and gets mad when I tell him no. I like him but now I'm not so sure our relationship is going to work out. I don't know what to do, I was thinking about having sex with him, but I'm afraid he'll leave me. I mean its sex right? What should I do, I'm confused.

[Homegirl 50]

Were you sexually assaulted? Because you just said you are a virgin. I don't understand.
If he is pressuring you to have sex and gets angry when you say no, he is not respecting you. It has only been three months and with your history he should be more understanding.
Leave him.

[cheetara]

[QUOTE=Homegirl 50;3139126]Were you sexually assaulted? Because you just said you are a virgin. I don't understand.
I was assaulted not raped. It was sexual touching (petting).
There was no penetration.

[Fr_Chuck]

No means no, And just asking for sex every day does not make it a sex addict it can make him just a average teenager who does not understand you really mean no. He may need to be reminded, Have you told him that if he keeps asking you will leave him,

[cheetara]

Another problem is our age difference. He's 23 n I'm 17. I turn 18 this summer

[JudyKayTee]

Let's see. He demands sex. You say no. He keeps demanding. You give in.

What is he going to want next?

[Homegirl 50]

You need to leave this clown alone. He will get what he wants and then leave, or just use you till you used up.