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    May 13, 2012, 06:53 PM
    Boyfriend sex trouble
    Hi my boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about a year now. Since we have started seeing each other he has suffered from premature ejaculation. He says I am the only girl this has ever happened with, that he just gets way too excited with me! It's getting quiet frustrating for both of us! He has tried masturbating before we have sex but this doesn't make any difference! Also he can masturbate for twenty minutes or more before he ejaculates but when he has sex with me he may only last 20 seconds! The only time he can last is after drinking alcohol. Is there any way to solve this? Can I help?
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    May 14, 2012, 04:55 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by eef14 View Post
    Hi my boyfriend and I have been seeing each other for about a year now. Since we have started seeing each other he has suffered from premature ejaculation. He says I am the only girl this has ever happened with, that he just gets way too excited with me! It's getting quiet frustrating for both of us! He has tried masturbating before we have sex but this doesn't make any difference! Also he can masturbate for twenty minutes or more before he ejaculates but when he has sex with me he may only last 20 seconds! The only time he can last is after drinking alcohol. Is there any way to solve this? Can I help?
    How old is he?
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    May 14, 2012, 05:49 AM
    He is 25, almost 26!
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    May 14, 2012, 07:12 AM
    Does he use condoms? If he doesn't he should start... maybe even use two, it will reduce his sensitivity which will help a great deal. Possibly even use a desensitizing spray AND a condom...
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