[mollygray1996]

Me and my boyfriend have been together for 7 months now. He's suddenly started texting loads of girls, and they text him a lot. He texts back with loads of kisses to them. Well this one girl texts him all the time, even at school. She even follows him around. Like in our art lesson she will just go over and sit next to him. Even though she doesn't even sit there. And she will start flirting with him. When I’m sitting at the same table as them she says anything to make conversation. She will wait for him after art to walk with him to next lesson. He walks with her.

I asked him about it, and he said they are just good mates nothing else. He got really defensive about it. But I feel like he likes her more because he texts her all the time. Every morning and night and he never texts me anymore. He used to, but I feel like he has drifted from me. When we are in school and he sees me he sometimes doesn't say hi or anything. He just blanks me but then I see him in art and he's fine again. He's never sat and ate lunch with me in school. I always make the effort to go see him on the football pitch. He has never made the effort to come and see me. Sometimes I feel like he thinks I don't exist anymore. I really don't know what to do.

He never says he love me anymore. Its always me saying it first then he will say it. I just want him to say it on his own back not from me. Saying it first. He used to always ask me to meet him after school where he lives so we could hang out but he never asks anymore. When I ask he's always saying he's tired and stuff.

I need some advice I feel like I’m going to lose him and I really don't want to. He means the world to me but I don't know if he feels the same way. I need some genuine advice because I don't know what to do anymore!

[WisperWill70]

I'm sorry to say it, - but your boyfriend has been pulling away and stopped being your boyfriend in his mind awhile ago but doesn't have the courage to break up with you. (So now he's ditching you, being distant and not saying hello, not returning affection). -- Trying to make him like you, care, interact more, etc. - is just going to make him drift away more and you miserable. Already this is taking your attention away from what's important.

If he ignores you and won't return your affection - let him, it's his loss. He means the world to you but you don't mean the world to HIM -- and you certainly deserve to have someone return your friendship and affection.

Put your time, energy and attention back into yourself, your schoolwork and have fun with other people.

[talaniman]

No matter how much you feel for some one, you never allow them to treat you with disrespect. That's what he is doing, and you need to stop allowing it. Dump him, because that's what he is trying to make you do any way. That's why he walks all over you, and ignores you.

Stand up for yourself.