[acargo]

Im only 19 years old and Ive been with my fiancé for 4 yrs now we have a son together and I just hate my sex life my drive is really low and I have never had an orgasm. I feel like I this like sex even though when we do do it I enjoy it I just hate the beginning process it hurts when he puts it in but after we do it for a few minutes it starts feeling good. I feel like he's going to leave me because I don't like doing it when he wants to he's been talking about sleeping in the living room now and it really sucks.. What can I do to increase my sex drive? I need help!!

[kp2171]

How do hurt exactly?

Is it an issue of too much friction? Not enough lubrication? Little foreplay? Pain even with foreplay? Does he try to penetrate you too soon? Are you reaching orgasm at all? Did you have this pain before you had a child?

A little more detail might help.

[acargo]

Well see I think the pain is related to his size I am a little person and he's a big guy down there. Its pain even with foreplay its like a burning type pain. And no Ive never been able to reach an orgasm. The pain has been before and after my son my sex drive is lower after I had my son.

[Krs]

How about visiting your gynea about this?

And have you tried oral sex to reach orgasm?

[kp2171]

Can you reach an orgasm with self stimulation or with oral?

[acargo]

Yeah I tried oral and it doesn't work I swear I have tried everything I think the best is to visit the Dr. about this.