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loveamatuer · May 8, 2012, 12:46 AM

Hello, I'm 17 years old and about 8 months ago I met this girl... I tried to reach her but something happened and she had to change school but I kept her Facebook. About 1 month ago I start talking with her... She seemed really into me but I knew from past relationships that she takes everything really slow... We went out for coffee a couple of times. About 1-1.5 weeks I asked her to come to a friends party... She refused and after that said that she likes someone else and that she wasn't interested to me but wanted to keep the chatting with me because she had really fun and made her happy... I told her that I couldn't ever see her friendly and it was a torture for me knowing that she likes someone else and chatting with her at the same time... She couldn't understand and was insisting on it, so last night I told her not to be so selfish and understand me too... And we stopped talking...
She also said that when se met me for the first time she liked me a lot and know she likes me but there this guy that told me is together for about 2 weeks... Also the last month of talking she thought it was for fun and I wasn't talking serious about me and her and when she realised that told me about the other guy...
I want some guidance or what to do or not do...
Thanks for every answer

citygirlrst · May 8, 2012, 01:39 AM

There are a lot of girls out there, you deserve someone who's sure they like you and want to be with you. If she later comes back 100% sure, and you are still interested and single; then go for it, but if she's not sure she might change her mind resulting in you being hurt. Good luck

loveamatuer · May 8, 2012, 06:04 AM

Well if she later come back won't it be like... That she broke up with the other. I can't find anyone else... So I'll go to him (meaning me) ( I don't know the proper english word to say it)

I wish · May 8, 2012, 08:28 AM

Basically both of you liked her at the same time and she picked him. So even if she does came back to you, she will always have chosen the other guy first, and you're the second choice.

I suggest that you continue to meet new people. Now that you gotten to know her, you have a better idea of what type of girl you want, so now you know what to look for.

Darkangelxx · May 8, 2012, 07:08 PM

Theta another girl out there who will lije u back an will never consider youa second best , trust me you'll end up finding someone who you lie more than you did the other girl an will forget about her so go meet other girls