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    Apr 29, 2012, 09:40 AM
    My boyfriend physically hurt me! What do I do?
    My boyfriend got angry at me today because I said something which he claims he never did. He barged his way into my house pushed me into my room and physically hurt me. He wouldn’t let me leave the room he took my phone off me and was constantly pushing me into a corner, grabbing my wrists and pinning me to the bed. I don’t know what to do now, I managed to get him out the house and away from me but I’m scared of what he might do, he's never before hit me but he can sometimes get aggressive if we are rowing.
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    Apr 29, 2012, 10:38 AM
    First, you should be reporting him to the police. Second, you shouldn't be calling him your boyfriend anymore as you should be breaking up with him. Someone like this, it's only a matter of time until he starts hitting you. You need to put an end to that now by reporting what he did to the police.
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    Apr 29, 2012, 10:47 AM
    I agree totally with odinn7. Simply let him know that he hurt you and you want no further contact with him. Also, be sure to let other people know what has happened. If you find that you develop any bruises, take pictures of them. If he has a key to your home, get your locks changed now. Do not get into any arguments with him, do not answer phone calls or text messages, nothing. Definitely do not fall for any apologies or sweet talk and promises.
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    Apr 29, 2012, 04:33 PM
    You got lucky THIS time so gather all your friends, especially MALES, and a few good cops and do whatever it takes to keep this guy out of your life forever, and yourself safe from him. Either he is an EX now, or you are a fool.
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    Apr 29, 2012, 05:32 PM
    Call the police and press charges. Get better locks on the door. Get a protective order against him.

    Do not run back to him tomorrow when he acts all loving. Most abused women the next day run back to the man who hits them, and at some point get used to being abused, and even learn to blame theirself.

    Don't get into this trap,
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    Apr 29, 2012, 07:24 PM
    Listen to these people... DO NOT... go back to him, no matter how sorry he says he is because the next time and I can guarantee, there will be a next time it will be worse.

    The first time it happens, you are a victim,
    The second time it happens you are a volunteer.

    Are you going to be a volunteer like thousands of other women, and yes men out there who are doing it in the name of love?.
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