[oned1rection]

I broke up with my boyfriend of two months about two months ago. Since about a month ago, I think I made a mistake.

Through friends, I found out he's still upset with me. He doesn't like how I broke up with him.

1, I did it over text. And yes, I know that's an all time low, so I'm fine with accepting that I messed up there.

But I blamed our relationship failure on him. And that bothered him a lot. I tried to text him about a month ago, and I told him I felt bad about the break up and wanted to become close again, but I never got a response. I still, to this day, didn't get a response.

I feel terrible. I know I was wrong, and I know I should be giving him his space, but I just want to sincerely apologize to him, and he won't let him talk to him. Of course, there's always awkward confrontation, in which he will almost be forced to tell me that it's okay, and that he forgives me, but he won't mean it.

Now I question if I like him again. Because why do I care so much? He was my first everything. First kiss, first real boyfriend, and other unmentioned topics.

I just wish I knew how he felt.

He's dating someone else now. I don't think he's completely over me... I can't be sure though. I just need some positive boy advice :(

[none12345]

Well that's one of the consequences for breaking up with someone and now you have to live with it. He did exactly what I would do, as a guy we need to maintain some sort of self respect.

You have a few options, you can go beg him to take you back and from there he will either take you back which then you will do everything for him to make sure he don't leave you or he won't want to take you back and you have to live with it and move on. I also question, if he was trying to get you back after you broke up with him, you'd probably won't take it back. Sort of like you want what you can't get.

Anyhow, life goes on. From here the best thing is to move on and take this as a learning experience.

[talaniman]

He was your first and yes it was a mistake to dump a guy without talking about things but since he is upset, I doubt he wants to take any chances of a repeat performance, so let the first one go, and take some time to be ready for the second.

No way you dump me and then sweet talk your way into my confidence, or trust, NEVER! So don't try, that's adding insult to injury, and way to late for a guilt apology, just saying from a guy.