[MaddisonTayler]

So in need help. I like this girl. I used to really really like her,At one point I loved her. So saying forget her isn't going to work for me. She still loves her ex. And I ended this thing that we had going. And I felt better but the day after doing that I kissed her. I thought that, that would give me closure but it made realize that I still really liked her. Can anyone give me advice on how to get her mind off her ex? Because she's the one I want. And I know that I can make her mine, that kiss helped me know that. So now I just need some help on how to do it. How can I show her that I'm better than him?

[spunkymonkey213]

Don't show her that your better just move on. She will eventually move on too. So just be friends for now.

[MaddisonTayler]

Well do you think I could at least kiss her again?

[Cloudyschi]

Kiss her again! Or be like... I don't know make her ex look like a jerk!

[Alty]

I'm guessing you're very young. The "I used to really really like her,At one point I loved her", and then "I thought that, that would give me closure but it made realize that I still really liked her".

You went from like, to love, to like again. That's normal when you're young.

You said that she's the one you want. Well I can understand that too. When you're young you think every person that makes your heart beat faster is the one. That's not the case. She's the one, for right now. I doubt she's the one forever.

So what do you do? Well, ask her out. Date her for a while, if she agrees. Then, when your love wanes again, which it will, you break up, move on, and date someone else. Lather, rinse, repeat, until you're old enough to know what real love is. Trust me, when it's real love it won't go from "like to love to like", it will stay at love.

[Cloudyschi]

Yes!!

[Marshmallowpeng]

Make sure she knows how you feel, so she knows that you're an option. And don't pressure her into being with you, it will just make her stressed. Make sure she knows your not going to give up, so she starts thinking of you as a serious option for her. And just be kind and nice and hopefully she will work out on her own that she should be with you. You obviously care a lot about her :) <3 love anna. X

[Homegirl 50]

What makes you think you are better than her boy friend when you seem to have no problem kissing another boy's girl, and what's up with her that she sees no problem kissing you when she is dating someone else.
One important thing to learn when you are young is, you don't mess with something that belongs to someone else and you can't have everything you want.
I would imagine you will continue on with this girl and then you will not like her anymore, just like before.

[MaddisonTayler]

Homegirl 50 I believe you read this wrong. I never touched her when she was with her ex... she kissed long after they broke up.