Ordination through the internet may be "legal" in your state, but it isn't ideal.
Think of it this way: If you go to a doctor, do you want one with an internet license or one who is board certified? I'll go to the board certified physician or surgeon.
If you send your child to school, do you want your child's teacher to be highly qualified and licensed by a state board of education? Yes, please.
Similarly, when you go to a pastor, wouldn't it make sense that he or she have studied at a Theological Seminary? That they received their Orders of Ordination from a real religious authority? Isn't your spiritual health (and marriage, if applicable) important enough to put into someone who has put in the time, energy, and effort to become Ordained through the Church? A real church, not something with ".com" in the name.
Ordination in some demoninations is a labor of love for God's people. In one case, I can say this person began the process and 9 years later was finally Ordained. That's without any deferment or trouble with his process. He is an exemplary Pastor and truly has a heart for the people of his congregation.
You may say, "but Uncle So-and-so means so much to me, I want him to marry me and my fiancee." Or maybe it's Aunt So-and-so. Or a really great friend. Or a bum on the street. Whomever. Well, if that's the case, can't you find some other way to include that person into your special day? Perhaps they can add some remarks or read a passage. Sing a song. Stand by your side.
You may say, "Well, I don't want a pastor to marry us because I'm not religious." Well, then just go to a Justice of the Peace. Or ask that a real Ordained Pastor tailor the service so it's not so focused on religion.
In a nutshell, sheesh.
Signed,
A real Ordained Pastor's Wife
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