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    ethernet Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 27, 2012, 07:33 AM
    Relationship dead, but a child involved!
    Moved to its own thread and edited/T

    The mother of my fiancé is an interfering old c**t and has decided she would be better away from me. She now lives in a different house that her parents have been guilted into paying for. I'm trying to move on with my life, but whenever she phones, and as anyone here can attest to, its so hard.
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    Mar 27, 2012, 10:25 AM
    You will always be the father, and I would recommend to be a good one, one that it is involved and caring.

    But the relationship is a completely different topic, to combine the two is a mistake. If she not happy with you, give her space, and although you should see your daughter, maybe giving mom the a tiny silence treatment will show her how it is to not be in a relationship with you. Give her what she is asking for.
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    Mar 28, 2012, 02:51 AM
    Thanks guys, she told me last night she doesn't love me any more and isn't physically attracted to me any more either. Don't know what that means, but hey as long as I get to see my daughter, the world can keep spinning.
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    Mar 28, 2012, 07:23 AM
    Yes its very hard but make your child the focus and priority, and be a great dad, and you will eventually get used to this arrangement. Because you can't be a good couple, doesn't mean you can't be great parents.

    Good luck.

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