[ramya098]

We both are very best friends. We both care a lot for each other. We enjoy each others presence. We both flirt on each other a lot just for fun. I considered him to be my best friend always. He actually has a girlfriend (a long distance relationship) for about 9 months. But recently 1 month ago he proposed me, and I was like I really love you so much.

I want you to be my wife. I don't want to miss you in my life. Please accept me. I'm going mad of you not even able to study these days. I want you I will leave my ex-gf. Please tell me your decision.

I was impressed by his love and felt yes, he's my guy. I can't miss him and all, then accepted his proposal. We were in a relationship for not even a month, and he started avoiding me. Now I feel he can't leave his ex, and I don't want him to be my love. I want to breakup! Hes not even giving me a message, or a call. Whenever he sees me in college he just says hi, that's it!

I feel may be he isn't daring to tell me about breakup we were very good friends before, and I want that friendship back. Can this friendship be possible after love?

[talaniman]

You better confront him, face to face and get the facts behind his behavior. I would be cautious of a fellow that went behind his girls back to talk to you, especially since he now ignores you.

You may have destroyed this friendship because he appears to be a lying cheater. Either way, you need a proper healing before you just jump back to a friendship with this character, so get the truth first.

[mmresd]

Communication is key here. Ask him if he was serious or if he is just playing around. Maybe because he declared such a big feeling for you, he is now feelings a bit awkward being around you... it happens.