[sadboy]

I really like this girl. I didn't know her much last year, and we started to talk this year in msn. We talked about everything, soon we became best friends. She tells me everything. I tried to ask her out as her friend, but she keeps saying go with more people. I am really confused. Now, we don't talk that much, she's getting closer with other boys in her class (I am not in her class). We don't have many topic to talk about in msn now, I am really scared of losing her. I want to change my classes, but I just cant. If one day I ask her out as a real date, and if she says no, I will lose her. Now we are just bestfriends. I want her to know I love her. I told her that I love her (kind of joking mode), she said, "no, you don't love me"... what should I do? Also, she's leaving this year... to other country...

[talaniman]

She doesn't want what you want, and doesn't feel the same way as you do. Accept it, and focus on other things in your life, that you enjoy.

You can always be friends later, but for now, leave her alone, until you come to terms, and deal with the reality she doesn't love you.