[Chris-132]

There's this girl in my school that I started talking too. Over the past week we've been talking a lot and always flirting with each other. Every time we talk she always tells me. " where was I when she needed a guy like me" or "OMG why can't my boyfriend act, or think like you ".

When she said she had a boyfriend I felt destroyed. I told her about her boyfriend, and she tells me that her boyfriends really jealous when she hangs or talks to guys. She says her boyfriend always gets mad for no reason, so I told her that he isn't worth it and she agrees. I told her she deserves better, someone that doesn't get mad at her because she hangs out with guy friends or makes her cry. Point is her boyfriends an *** .

The next day we talked, flirted a little and I told her if she wanted to hang out on Saturday, she said yes. After school I was talking to my friend since he talks to the girl I like. I asked him if she ever talked or mentioned my name to him, he said yes. He told me that she likes the way I'm acting around her, and also told him that she wished I was her boyfriend. I'm going to be with her in class for two hours so that's a good thing.

When I talk to her should I mention about Saturday? And if we hang out Saturday should I tell her how I feel about her? Please help.

[mmresd]

It doesn't matter, if she has a boyfriend she is off limits to you... respect her relationship.

[talaniman]

Dude don't be used like that. Has it occurred to you that if she will cheat on her boyfriend she will cheat on you?

Worse, she will hang out, get you excited and go be with her boyfriend, and that will hurt and make you mad.

Don't do this to yourself. Leave girls with boyfriends alone. Or pay the price.

[Alty]

Doesn't matter. She's with someone else. If she really wanted to be with you she'd break up with her current boyfriend. Since she's not willing to do that, take that as a sign that she's just not that into you.

[indya]

As long as she has a boyfriend, she cannot really like you. She's not into you.