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    rian12 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Mar 4, 2012, 09:08 PM
    I cheated- do I tell?
    OK, so I've been dating my boyfriend for a year and ten months. I cheated on him about seven months ago. I asked him to eat me out and he never did, so that night when I was drunk at a party, and I let someone do that to me... I think that was some of the reason why :( Its not an excuse I'm just saying...

    The next day I tried to break up with him but he was about to cry and said he couldn't live without me... So, I never did. I tried to multiple times since then because I keep thinking "the truth will set you free." But, about a month ago I cheated again... I was drunk and I gave him a hj and that was it. I feel so guilty. But he's said before if you ever cheated on me I don't know how I wouldn't punch you? I'd be so angry... He only gets to hang out with me once a week and it makes me lonely.

    He's told me before if we ever break up he'd never date me again. That is my biggest problem. I want to break up with him sometimes to be single and crazy but later on in life I want to marry him. Our relationship isn't typical love. It took us a year to say I love you because were not young dumbasses.

    Should I keep the secret to myself and live on? Or break up with him and keep the memories? If I tell him my reputation will be ruined and a lot of people will hate me. I'm also going to live in the same building as him next year. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
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    Mar 4, 2012, 10:26 PM
    It might be different if you had only done it once and had learned from your mistake but you sit here and admit to making a mistake a second time just recently. Being drunk is no excuse for doing something like that, it really isn't.

    Why don't you do him a favor and break up with him before you go and do something like this again... because you know you will. I think that both of you will be better off.
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    Mar 5, 2012, 01:55 PM
    Break up, keep whatever memories, and move on. Then he doesn't have to know you are a lying cheater, and you won't get punched in the face, and you can keep getting drunk and do sexual things with random guys when you so chose.

    Problem solved.
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    Mar 5, 2012, 02:26 PM
    OK, but I still have to walk with him at graduation and prom next month. Should I wait until summer and go to college single or do it now?
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