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Brooke20barker · Mar 4, 2012, 07:32 PM

My best Friend, well not anymore, is dating my ex boyfriend. I still really like him. I can't move on. At first she ask me if it was OK to date him. I said no because I still liked him. She said OK. I thought we were past it then I heard people talking about them dating. I was like no they r not. Then the other day I heard her talking to him and what they were going to do later. I interrupted them and asked if they were dating She said no and He said yes. His name is Bailey. My ex friends name is Jenna. Then jenna said fine yes we r dating. I got REALLY mad and stormed off. That night on Facebook we were chatting and fighting. I got off because I didn't want to here it anymore. I didn't Know what to do. I got bake on then went to his page and told him, " I know you said we can be friends but Please break up with her!" he said, " I like you as a friend but you just have to get over it don't let me get in the way of your friendship with Jenna" I didn't know what to do then so I went to bed. The next day at school she was talking to him so I didn't bother to go over and say my daily "hey". I went to my other friends and they were all talking about them kissing I was like! REALLY! Then I want to her and asked DID YOU KISS HIM? She said no. I didn't know who to believe. At lunch I didn't say anything to her. I want to my friends any they were looking at a pic on phone and I ask what it was. IT WAS A PIC OF THEM kissing! She lied to me AGAIN. I was SOOOO mad. I went to her and yelled, u lied to me again! You kissed him and lied to me about it, and you lied to me about dating him! IM SO MAD AT YOU I Don't WANT TO SPEAK TO YOU EVER AGAIN! I ran out of the lunch room to the reatroom and cryed!when I got home I went to bed then I got on here what do I do now?

Fr_Chuck · Mar 4, 2012, 07:39 PM

You and he broke up, you stop trying to be part of it, if you want to break up with your friend, do it, but you leave your ex alone, stop talking, stop chatting and go on.

indya · Mar 4, 2012, 10:20 PM

If you keep on getting mad at her, she'll keep on lying to you. When you called him your ex-boyfriend that's what he is!

He's moved on and found someone else, it's just that unfortunately that someone else is your best friend.

You must move on. And stop listening to others about their relationship.

How old are you?

Stellaw · Mar 31, 2012, 12:05 AM

For me you should move on and don't mind them. If you are a student then focus in your study's or find a guy who deserve your love and a better guy who will love you, cherish you and accept you for who you are. There is a lucky guy who will be with you for the rest of your life and you and him will be happy.

brypie99 · Apr 20, 2012, 12:44 PM

Tell your best friend that you don't appreciate her dating him. Tell her that if she doesn't stop lieng then you don't think you guys can be friends. But also you can't change the fact of them dating, and try to move on. Remember Chicks before s! Them and liz

rosalie alfaro · Jul 5, 2012, 10:26 PM

Yes I agree. I know cuzz I've been through it. Dnt mind them. If she really waz your friend & if she really did care about you she wouldn't have gone out with him in the 1st place... she's a jerk

jessee1900 · Jul 9, 2012, 12:28 PM

I am going through the same kind of thing right now. My best friend told me she liked my ex-boyfriend last night and asked if I was okay with it... I didn't want to get in her way because honestly, if you guys broke up, then its done... so... thats what I had to tell myself. So now she keeps talking to me about what he does with her and it really makes me mad... Just be the bigger person and when they talk about it just say you don't want to hear it, and throw yourself into something else like sports or studies or another guy that actually cares. Good luck<3

sarahscarlett · Aug 16, 2012, 08:41 PM

This happened to me once when I was younger.
I had 2 best friends and I was insanely into the guy one.
I worked really hard to get him to like me and finally one day, he showed that he did! He was my boyfriend for a while and I was insanely into him.
But then, on my BIRTHDAY he told me he liked my friend, yeah, and they started dating. I was devastated and hurt...
HOWEVER, as the story goes...
I started dating another guy and like 3 or 4 months later, my ex was begging me to come back to him, and had dumped my "best friend"... I said no. xD
Even BETTER, I am still dating the guy that he drove me to because honestly I was desperate, but now that guy is getting ready to graduate college and he is super hot and smart and treats me like a princess. :) Also, The guy that dumped me for my friend is now my best friend and still says he regrets it...

On top of all of that the girl that was my "best friend" that he dumped me for, got pregnant by some older guy during her junior year and had to be home schooled. Yeah.

So basically, even though you feel awful now, "this too shall pass".
:)
Hang in there hunny, this is far from the best part of your life.
IT WILL GET BETTER.
Xoxo
Sarah <3