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    Feb 28, 2012, 07:38 PM
    Confused and depressed
    CONFUSED AND DEPRESSED. My boyfriend of 4 years seem to have lost interest in me 10 months after having our son who is now 16 months I asked him what is wrong but he says nothing is wrong just some things on his mind he is still nice to me and he is a great dad to our son. He says that he still loves me but he never kisses or hugs me any more and we haven't had sex in months he says it's not me and he is not seeing anyone else I really love him and wants this to work please help.
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    Feb 29, 2012, 08:05 AM
    Work on other areas of the relationship, as it takes a lot of time to adjust to changes that life changing events brings about. Think longer term, not just day to day, because as a guy, a child, and his first(?), is a heavy thing to grapple with, mostly because of a greater responsibility, and a lack of experience.

    How old are you both and are there things going on with his job, or social life that maybe affecting him, or YOU? Was he affectionate before? Is this the first child for you both?
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