[crystal_clear]

Hi, I met him a few months ago. He's 34 I'm 22. He's married. His wife knows he does this. He leaves his wife for a few months gets a new girlfriend breaks up with her, then goes back to his wife. He had dated my sister briefly a few months ago. She forewarned me about him. Everyone did! He's lived with me for a month. Tonight he left. He sold my phone & left. He didn't say goodbye. He just never came back. He told me our relationship would be no strings attached. I agreed, but fell in love. And may be pregnant. While he's moving on to his next victim I'm shocked, in love, and potentially pregnant. What do I do? How do I get over him? I know I was stupid. :( please help.

[ScottGem]

The first thing you need to do is deal with your low self-esteem issues. Women who fall for someone like this usually do so because the creep fulfilled something they felt lacking in their life. So a large part of the this goes back to you. A strong, self confident woman, would never have fallen for such a creep. And please don't think I'm putting you down. I'm not I'm trying to point out a problem you have that needs to be dealt with.

If you are pregnant, then you need to decide what you are going to do about the child. If you decide to keep it and raise it, then you need to go after him for child support.

[talaniman]

Find out if your pregnant first and deal with that. As for how you move on from this. Don't worry, the heart break will be so great you will know better next time. Till then, boy is the healing going to be miserable, but you can get through it by being smart from now on.

Stupid is temporary if you have learned your lesson, and don't repeat your mistakes. And listen to some good advice. Seems you have had plenty, and no doubt will get more.