[tommycolley]

Hey guys,
Me and my girlfriend had a great relationship like we always walked with each other and were always laughing, anyway we hadn't seen each other for about six weeks because we were both to busy. Anyway I saw her today at college and in the morning she seemed fine but then her friend came up to her and said something which I didn't hear and then later in the day she kept criticizing me and seemed quite negative and I'm pretty damn confused about it

[zcatchick]

I'm not a guy, but as a woman, I have advice. Ask her if something's bothering her. It's never wise to assume you know what a girl is thinking. If you're worried, just ask. And affection, concern, and just letting a woman talk can make her love you that much more. Women work through problems, and calm down faster, when we talk about it. You don't even have to understand. Just listen. Make eye contact and tell her you care.

[tommycolley]

Thanks, ill see how it goes tomorrow

[JudyKayTee]

She's your girlfriend but you haven't seen her in six weeks? What is your definition of "girlfriend"? Is it the same as hers?

[talaniman]

Maybe she is having a bad day so ask her. Just curious how you are so busy for 6 weeks to not see each other, or at least talk regularly?