[feiz2012]

Wel I have been with my girl for 3years and now she broke up with me and said she need like 3 weeks space to think about things but she says she loves me and its not someone else and not to worry about her sleeping or getting other guyd numbers she just needs space. Do you think that she's being honest and will she come back?

[talaniman]

Dude, put your worries aside, and focus on doing your own thing for 3 weeks and giving her what she ask for. Then see what happens. Hope for the best, but plan for the worst. Maybe her feelings are changing, and she wants to see if she misses you, or wants to see how she feels without your influence.

For sure you have a choice to worry about what may happen, or use the time wisely for your benefit. Sorry I cannot answer your question more directly, because I don't know either of you, or anything about you or what going through her mind. But I can tell you with the certainty of experience, to do as she says, and disappear and have a good a time as possible without her.

If she is indeed on the fence about you my friend, acting like a scared , needy, insecure child will not help that decision at all. Matter of fact, just the opposite happens, she gets pushed away. If she chooses to come back, it has to be completely her choice. Let her make it! Just stay cool, calm, collected, and in control of yourself.

How old are you both?