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shyrage22 · Jan 19, 2012, 10:38 PM

So there is this boy that I really like. A LOT. And he has admitted multiple times he likes, maybe even loves me. We have been texting a lot, some of them involve "kissing" and we talk at school. The only problem is, he has a girlfriend. I feel like a whore every time I talk to him. But I can't stand not talking to him. What do I do? What If I try to make him choose and its not me?

Silver Lining · Jan 20, 2012, 04:34 AM

How old are you sweetheart?

Look, I feel its just infatuation on your side, which will get over with a bit of tears if you are not strong. He is just using you. He has a girlfriend and he is flirting with you on the side. I'd describe it as Burger with fries. He is having a good time while you get hurt.
If he has a girlfriend, then what are you? Save yourself before its too late.

shyrage22 · Jan 20, 2012, 09:31 PM

I am fifteen which I know is young. I was afraid that what you said is exactely hwat is happening, I just don't want to admit it. This guy is amazing and it hurts to think that he would do that. Thanks though.

talaniman · Jan 20, 2012, 10:29 PM

If he goes behind his girlfriends back, he will go behind yours too, and probably does.

Not a good guy to give your heart to, or act on your feelings with. If you feel bad about it later, then you know its just not right.

Silver Lining · Jan 23, 2012, 01:05 AM

I agree with talaniman, if he is going behind his gf's back, surely he might be going behind your bac too,, who knowz how many girls he might be flirting with.

Sweety, you are just 15. Its definitely infatuation. Don't hurt yourself crying over spilt milk. Get as far away from his charm as possible. You will have a lot more bfs, crushes, infatuations in your life. You learn from your mistakes and finally you will find your Mr. Right. Take this as Lesson 1-never trust a guy who says he loves you and has another girlfriend.