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    Jan 17, 2012, 06:07 PM
    Confused / Hurt Doubtful about everyone who is being honest with me
    Should I stay in my marriage feel betrayed by my husband and best friend. We spend new years @ a club all 3 of use and drank quit a bit. It was a very nice evening. I am just hurt and confused about what happen. I don't know who to believe My husband or best friend apparently my husband touched my friends leg and pick up her dress and put is hand in her private part 3 times. I never heard her tell him to stop or not to do that. I did notice my husbands hand over to her side she was in the drives seat and I asked him what was he doing and he said nothing. Then we headed to breakfast and I confronted my best friend and asked her what happen and she finally told me he touched and but she never made a noise or asked him to stop. I am actually discusted with the whole situation. I don't know what to do at this point in time. My husband tells me we should move on and to let him show me how much he loves me. I really don't not believe he is in love with me because of the whole ordeal. I am mad and confused and donot know who to believe. Please let me know what you think of this I really need help.
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    Jan 17, 2012, 07:26 PM
    Leave him. No man who loves his wife would do that. And no woman who loves her husband would have doubts. There is clearly more by way of history.
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    Jan 17, 2012, 08:12 PM
    Sounds like he thought maybe a threesome was going to happen.

    Is it normal for you three to go out drinking? But to be honest the entire set up sounds like something bad in the planning to end up as it did.

    More about the history of the entire relationship of the three would be interesting to hear.
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