[Divalicious12]

So I really like this guy, but the problem is I'm from London, but I live in Kurdistan in North Iraq, and I can't date until I'm 18. I'm 15 by the way. So my mum hates his family, and his dad is related to my dad, but we don't go to their house very often. I haven't seen him in like 2 years. Until last week. I called his dad, to call my dad, so we can come to his house (his dad knows we like each other), and we went and I had so much fun with him. He's just so cute, and funny, and everything!

When we came back, I was heartbroken cause I missed him so much. I cried that night, and to make things worse his friend likes me, and his friend always comes to our house because he's my brothers friend, and the guy I like well actually love gave a necklace to his friend to give to me because obviously we don't get to see each other often like I said, and its mainly because were in different cities.

Anyway his friend never gave me the necklace, and said that he will never let us be together. Anyway, I miss him a lot, and I love him so much. I want to find more ways to get to see him more often, and maybe some advice? And I also need to talk to him in private, so I can tell him everything his friend has done.

[talaniman]

Without your parents permission, and help visits are out, but is there a reason you can't call and talk to him, or internet?

Seems the absence is making your heart grow fonder, but seems you could talk to your dad maybe. How are the dads related?

[Divalicious12]

I can't call him I don't have his number and there's no one to get it from and if my mum knows I like him woahhh that won't be good. And his dad is my dads cousin.



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That picture was a pic of him from 2 yrs ago

[talaniman]

You have to understand that you have very little control and to many secret in this situation. Frustrating as it is, you will have to accept that it's a bad time to be in love with a cousin.

Curious though since you can call your dads brother, but cannot call your cousin. How is that, or maybe I missed something.

I can relate though as I am very fond of my female cousins, and maybe you mistake family love for romantic love, so have a strong crush, that may last forever as mine does. I mean intense feelings can have us mixing things up. Especially at a young age. YES you are at that you age when intense feelings are often mistaken. Hey your human, we have feelings and that's okay. How we cope with them is what counts.

Acting on our feelings is not always wise either.

[Divalicious12]

No his dad is my dads cousin not brother and me and him aren't cousins lolz.