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    samtherockstar Posts: 5, Reputation: -4
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    Jan 14, 2012, 06:48 AM
    I want my girl friend back. I love her so much.
    I was happy with my love, but I don't know what happened. She dumped me, after that I broke down. She was 3 years younger than me. She was my life, I really loved her. I can't live with out her, so please help me. I'm 20 years old.
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    Jan 14, 2012, 02:35 PM
    17 year old girls change their feelings often, and what a young guy to do but get over it, and move on. Not good if her dumping you turns you into a pile of mush, at least not for more than a few days.

    I feel your pain but at such a young age, chances are you will only hurt until you find another one to love. And another, and another..!
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    Jan 14, 2012, 04:59 PM
    Of course you can keep on living. And she was 17, and at that age, boys and girls change their minds all the time.

    So you need to try and date closer to your age at this point and find someone else.
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    Jan 16, 2012, 04:56 PM
    Oh! So sad for you I really feel your pain!! As your friends said it's the age of changing mind sooo its little bit difficult for uuu to wait or to have an other opportunity! She is now ( out of her mind) so maybe she will recognize that after a few years! If you can wait! But now its really difficult ! In the other hand she have to have more experience and know more guys ( give her this opportunity ) because when you where in her age you had all the time to use your partner ! So lets her use hers ! Better than staying with you and her mind out of her !
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    Jan 17, 2012, 08:25 AM
    I think you really should move on. She's 17 years old and a little young to be in a long term relationship. She still has a whole life ahead of her. Like her education for example and goals to meet for her career of choice. Also you are young as well. You have many years ahead of you to find that perfect someone to share your life with. In the meantime, just keep busy and hang out with friends and do something's for yourself. Live life a little. YOu have a lot of it to live. Take care!

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