[jcrazyba]

My best friend just told me that she has had sex with her friend that is in a relationship. He is telling her he knew it was going to happen and he did not stop it. But that it was a mistake and he never wants it to happen again. My friend is, and has been, in love with him. Now he has slept with her and is calling it a mistake. No, she shouldn't have done it either and she knows that, but now she is hurting. What do I say to her to not make her feel worse?

[smoothy]

You can point out its not like it took her years to come to that understanding... and one time is easy to forget... a hundered times over years... now that's a lot harder.

We've all made mistakes... and we all get over them.