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    Jan 6, 2012, 02:05 PM
    Involved with a married man
    Hi, I am dating a married man for the past few weeks and I am single. He is in fact happily married and did not hide it from me. We are good friends who happen to have sex. I do not want him to leave his wife and neither does he. But he does want me to have his baby and says he will raise it himself and I can be as involved as I want or not at all(he does have a child of his own). I have refused as I don't see myself doing it. This does not seem to be the usual affair with a married man. But I do feel guilty at times and he doesn't...
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    Jan 6, 2012, 02:49 PM
    He will raise fhe baby himself "with his wife's permission" who just happens to know he is having an affair, for this purpose.

    My dear, run the other way as fast as you can !
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    Jan 7, 2012, 11:47 AM
    Ask him why he cheats if he "loves" his wife and kid
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    Jan 7, 2012, 11:54 AM
    If he is happily married why is he cheating. I do know some couples that allow affairs for various reasons. As long as his wife is OK with the affair, while I have moral issues personally some do this. But his wife has to be aware and approve.

    As for as the baby, that is an entire legal issue to custody, adoption perhaps, child support and more
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