[joojoo6]

Hi. My boyfriend and I broke up 8 months ago. After 3 months he came back to me, and said he likes to be a friend with me, and when I asked a question about our relationship, he said don't ask me anything. Then I told him I am not happy to just be a friend, and I like to work on our relationship as a girlfriend, and boyfriend, and correct our past mistakes on it.

He didn't tell me any clear answer. He didn't call me on my birthday during this 3 months. But I sent him text messages on his birthday. We had sex 2 times, 3 months before. He didn't go out with another girl. Also this past month he didn't call me, and I didn't either. Honestly I love him. I know we can't be same person, and we have different points, but I believe we can work on our relationship. I don't know what can I do? Please help me mentally, and give me some guide.

[talaniman]

You may be in love, he is NOT> You may be willing to work things out, but he is NOT. Sorry his actions are very clear, there ain't no love at all on his part, and you must accept that fact and move on with your own life without him in it. And forget being friends, that will hurt even more.

Sorry, but you must leave him alone.

[vanheart]

I agree, it didn't work then & its not now.

There's no reason for you to try to change his mind.

Don't be a friend, especially with his benefits.

That's not fair. Not sure how you can love someone that doesn't give it back.

Not worth you energy. Physically or mentally.

[AlaiaRae]

Love is a wonderful thing but there isn't the kind you were looking for from him. Ive done the friend thing,it makes you fall more and hurts worse when it doesn't happen. He's not in love with you and slighty cares he probably can't get any and is crawling back to you for some since you did in the past. Its your mistake and choice to make but just saying you shouldn't be friends or anything.