[kix]

My ex boyfriend of 5 years left me about 10 months ago I thought it was getting easier but as the days go on I realized that I truly do love him and he just recently told me he still loves me. I am just really confused because he has had 2 serious girlfriends that he has told me they had both made him happy and the one recent girlfriend he was in love with, he is no longer with her they were together for a month and a half maybe. His family still tells me he loves me. I am so confused I don't even know how to begin dealing with this. We have a 4 yr old daughter together. I just don't understand why he would tell me he's in love with some girl he just met but still in love with me. I'm sorry if this doesn't make sense I'm a little bit lost thank you

[I wish]

If he's capable of telling you that he loves someone else, then it means his feelings for you have changed. He doesn't feel strongly about you anymore.

Always act in the best interest of your child. If you haven't have a healthy and stable relationship with this man, then that wouldn't be in the child's best interest.

[Cat1864]

Unfortunately, it does make sense.

He is playing relationship roulette with you and how many other people? He doesn't know what he wants, but he definitely doesn't want you to move on and find another mate who cares about you and only you.

I know you can't go No Contact because of your daughter. So, I am going to suggest that you limit your discussions with him to her needs including visitation, doctor visits, school, etc.

Don't try to be 'friends' with him. Don't allow him to wiggle his way farther back into your life.

Allow yourself to put the romantic relationship with him behind you. Set aside any thoughts that he might mean what he says, because chances are very big that he doesn't. You need to be emotionally stable for your child and allowing him to play with your feelings weakens your stability.

[talaniman]

Hey, you got a guy that loves all his women, and your just one of them. Just make sure he pays his support and takes care of his child and loves her too! Otherwise, don't hold your breathe hoping he will love only you.