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taylorjayne17 · Dec 6, 2011, 06:40 PM

Okay so I have know this guy josh for about 3 years, we dated a little after we first met 3 years ago, I got scared of being hurt and broke up with him, so we have been friends ever since, then I started liking him again, but by the time I had told him he had just started a relationship with someone else, but he told me that his feeling for me have never changed, he still cares about me, so I tried to move on and now I am dating someone and I really like him, but I think I am in love with josh, but he is still dating this other girl and 2 weeks back josh had told me that he missed me and we still talk just its not like an everyday thing, do I try and make things work with my current relationship, or do I go after josh, and possibly wait for him. Or do you think by the time I'm done waiting it will be to late?

geminichick · Dec 10, 2011, 04:53 PM

Why you afraid to get hurt? Did something happen to make you feel the way you did? Generally when you break up with someone it is a good idea to have no contact with that person. He says he still has feelings for you and moved on in another relationship and you did as well. Are you both young? Teenagers? Interested in hearing from you so I can better answer your question.

taylorjayne17 · Dec 10, 2011, 06:03 PM

Yes we are both 17

I wish · Dec 10, 2011, 10:37 PM

What do you really want? Deep down inside?

geminichick · Dec 11, 2011, 05:33 AM

Honestly, I think the two of you should really leave things the way they are. When you are both in school together it's pretty difficult not to bump into him. See what happens from there Taylor. Thing is you are both 17 years old, so being in a committed relationship is pretty impossible at that age. Your ex being 17 probably wants to see what else is out there. He probably still cares about you. Teenage boys mature in their minds much slower than teenage girls.

YOu really need to do what makes you happy. Finish your schooling, you have your whole entire life ahead of you. There are a lot of guys out there waiting.

mino_slope · Dec 11, 2011, 11:54 AM

What I think is that you shouldn't go after him if he loved you he would have never thought about getting into a relation ship with another girl believe me I am a guy and I know for sure if he loved you he wouldn't have done that

Diana90 · Dec 14, 2011, 03:53 PM

Well,the way I see it that it's not fair to blame Josh for moving on.After all,you did break up with him.Not him.
I you're in a relationship and you're thinking of someone else then you probably shouldn't be in the relationship.Then this guy you're currently with is probably not the one.
Think like this: if Josh wants you back and wants a relationship would you break your current relationship off? If Yes,then maybe you should do that anyway.Then maybe all this guy is just a second choice for you after this Josh guy.

talaniman · Dec 14, 2011, 09:20 PM

Keep it friends.