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    Nov 30, 2011, 04:37 PM
    The guy I like might be gay
    Everyone tells me this guy is gay, but I recently saw a picture of him kissing a girl... he still doesn't know me, but I really want to know him better. What should I start with?
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    Nov 30, 2011, 05:00 PM
    If you have enough moxy, ask him. That will definitely get the conversation going,
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    Nov 30, 2011, 05:22 PM
    Don't believe every single thing people tell you until you have all the facts together. It really can hurt a person when others tell or spread lies. Try walking up to him and talking to him.
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    Dec 6, 2011, 10:26 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by tickle View Post
    If you have enough moxy, ask him. That will definitely get the conversation going,.

    Now THIS is a classic - my laugh of the day. Good one, Tick!

    Do you have an opportunity to talk to him, same as any friend? Talk about sports, school, the weather - whatever people your age talk about.

    I wouldn't believe rumors. In fact, unless I hear it from a person's lips I tend not to believe anything.

    Of course, he might be bisexual, who knows, but I would be friendly and pleasant and see how he responds.

    Good luck.
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    Dec 6, 2011, 01:17 PM
    Some gay men still date or kiss girls esp at teen years to try and look like they fit in. ( not sure what they are fitting in)
    Others are bi, they like girls and boys. You can't believe every photo and can never believe 1/2 of what you are "told".

    So talk to him, get to be his friend and let it go from there.

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