Everyone tells me this guy is gay, but I recently saw a picture of him kissing a girl... he still doesn't know me, but I really want to know him better. What should I start with?

If you have enough moxy, ask him. That will definitely get the conversation going,

Don't believe every single thing people tell you until you have all the facts together. It really can hurt a person when others tell or spread lies. Try walking up to him and talking to him.

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Originally Posted by tickle

If you have enough moxy, ask him. That will definitely get the conversation going,.

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Now THIS is a classic - my laugh of the day. Good one, Tick!

Do you have an opportunity to talk to him, same as any friend? Talk about sports, school, the weather - whatever people your age talk about.

I wouldn't believe rumors. In fact, unless I hear it from a person's lips I tend not to believe anything.

Of course, he might be bisexual, who knows, but I would be friendly and pleasant and see how he responds.

Good luck.

Some gay men still date or kiss girls esp at teen years to try and look like they fit in. ( not sure what they are fitting in)
Others are bi, they like girls and boys. You can't believe every photo and can never believe 1/2 of what you are "told".

So talk to him, get to be his friend and let it go from there.